Exciting men attract more women. Makes sense, doesn’t it? Women aren’t usually attracted to wallflowers, or guys sitting by the wayside without any interest in their lives.
Would you like to add more excitement and adventure to your life, so that women find you more attractive without you needing to do anything else? I’m about to explain how you can become an adventurous guy, become more of a risk-taker, be more exciting, and have a far more interesting life than you do right now.
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More times than not, men have a lot of fears with becoming adventurous. In our modern-day society, our lives are often very safe. They’re very routine and mundane, and it’s very easy for us to get stuck in a rut. We become comfortable in our comfort zones, and don’t like venturing too far from it.
As far as dating goes, women are definitely more attractive to adventurous and exciting guys. We can think of Hugh Hefner, James Bond, and any long list of guys that women tend to want to take their panties off for.
They’re not boring, stay-at-home guys, are they? They live life on the edge, they enjoy danger, and they are always chasing a thrill. One of the best personality types you can have to attract women is to be adventurous.
Not only will you find it easier to approach them and risk rejection, but you’ll also have an edge about you that money can’t buy. You’ll have that look of a guy who can handle himself and has been through some difficult situations, and this is a surefire way to get women to notice you.
How do you do it? What I’ve learned in my years of coaching is that a lot of guys lack that real adventurous spirit in their life. They may be stuck in an office all day, they were raised by a mom who was more careful, they’re stuck doing things that just aren’t exciting, or maybe they’re naturally a bit risk-adverse. They tend to play it safe.
These types of guys usually struggle with dating. They just lack that ability to hit on women, make a move, or take some risks when they’re in dating situations. They don’t want to make women feel uncomfortable, because most of the time they are uncomfortable with themselves. Often, other guys will even take girls off them right in front of their eyes.
The main benefit for you to become more adventurous is your happiness and well-being. If you think about human beings in our more caveman state, in a world we were designed to live in, we were taking risks. Each and every day. Man had to fight to survive.
We’re not really made to live in this very safe, sanitized world that we have created, and this can be a real reason why people often suffer from depression and unhappiness. We just aren’t getting enough challenges in our everyday lives. We have become a people complacent with boredom.
Are you tired of being that guy who just ventures out on Friday nights, trolling bars for girls? I want to help you be more attractive to women so that your overall lifestyle will enchant her. Get motivated now, because here are three things you can do to start adding more adventure in your life and will help you be the man of excitement that women desire.
Number one: Take up some sort of thrill-seeking sport.
My favorite is snowboarding. I love all aspects of snowboarding, particularly going over large jumps, going away for the weekend, socializing and hanging with my friends, and then meeting some hot snow bunnies. For me, it’s not only thrill-seeking, and I’m able to go over 60 miles an hour down the hill, but it’s also a great way to socialize and mix with different types of people.
Take up a type of hobby that has an element of risk and danger. It could be riding a motorcycle, taking off over the water on a jet ski, or taking up kickboxing, anything that gets your adrenaline pumping. Do a quick Google search for thrill sports, extreme sports, and risk sports, and you’ll start to get a bit of an idea of things you can do on the weekend that push the edge a little bit more.
Number two: Do things that you would not normally do.
What if you live in the city? If you’ve never gone to a blues type of music venue, go experience that reality. If you’ve never heard jazz, go to a jazz club for the night. If you normally like action movies, go see a romantic comedy. Usually adventurous people are into trying new things, even things that they think they may not normally like. This is what creates excited men.
If you’re more of a manly man, go to an art gallery or go watch the ballet. If you’re a bit more of a feminine guy, go watch a boxing fight. See if you can do things that are bit outside your comfort zone. Open yourself up to new people and experiences, because this is really what the heart of being more exciting really is. I probably don’t need to explain why, but women do find guys that are open-minded a lot more attractive.
If you’re someone who’s very stuck in your ways, knows what you like and don’t like, and never varies from that, then you’re not really going to be interesting to women. You’re going to find that you don’t have a lot in common with most women. If you ever end up in a relationship, you won’t have a clue on how to keep your relationship exciting, and it will stagnate.
If you dress pretty badly right now, take a month where you have an interest in fashion. If you don’t like going out at night, change that for a month, and start to explore the happy hours in your city. Being adventurous often comes down to doing things that you wouldn’t normally do, and being open to trying new things. That’s really the only way to come out of the unexcited shell of your life.
Number three: Read “The 50th Law,” by Robert Greene and 50 Cent. (http://www.amazon.com/50th-Law-Robert-Greene/dp/1846680689)
This book is all about overcoming fear. Being an adventurous person really is about overcoming fear. The more you can learn to enjoy fear, face it, get through it, and look for more dangerous fears to go for, the more you’re going to be confident, grow as a person, and get more results.
Usually, the thing stopping you from getting more positive results in your dating and personal life is not understanding or wanting to avoid fear. Fear is a positive thing. If you’re constantly feeling fear, face it head on, and overcoming it, you’ll definitely learn to be an adventurous person, and you’ll have a far more interesting life. Learn to attract women with excitement!
Facing fears is a difficult thing. For a lot of people, they may have had a safer life, and the idea of being more adventurous can be very confronting. Now is the time for you to get out there and to do things that you normally wouldn’t, to take more risks, be more adventurous, and to live life to the fullest. This is definitely the guy that women tend to find attractive.
When you’re this type of guy, picking up women is going to require a hell of a lot less effort and will be much easier. Start taking the first steps today. Take those small steps, take action, and make it happen. Be that exciting man who attracts the women. You’ll also have a lot more fun, and who couldn’t use more fun in their life?
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