Let us in on the secret…
Can you reveal the 5 secret places you’d go to pick up a girl when the regular scenes just aren’t cutting it anymore?
It’s important to be a social guy who is jumping from group to group, like a butterfly flitting from flower to flower. It is quite difficult at first, if this isn’t your natural pattern. You may feel like you are more the caterpillar type, curled up and chewing on a leaf. Or maybe you are a chrysalis, wrapped up in yourself and waiting for your release.
I know exactly how it feels to have social anxiety, be nervous or intimidated, but the thing is, if you really do want to find females, meet girls, and attract women, you need to push yourself out of your comfort zone and do something different.
A lot of guys aren’t sure how to find females, but they’re not really trying. When I say trying, I mean pushing themselves and setting themselves missions. Five little missions that I’d like for you to go on are the following:
1. Talk to ten people today. It doesn’t matter if it’s a guy or a girl. Talk to ten people.
2. Stop a girl that you find attractive. It doesn’t matter where it is; any girl today that you find attractive — stop her and say, “Hey, you look really good today.”
3. As you walk through the city or wherever you live, try your best to hold eye contact with the girls that you see. What you’ll find is that most girls end up smiling. Confident girls will maintain the eye contact, and a girl that’s simply not interested or not very confident will break eye contact. Make sure that you do not break eye contact.
4. While you are sitting down, if any person sits next to you, begin a conversation with them. You can talk about anything that comes to mind. This is completely improvisational conversation. One great opener is, “Hey, how’s your day been?” Simply, that.
5. Go out more. Most guys want to meet women, but they do not go out. You need to get out. You can’t meet women sitting at home on the internet all day. You need to get out and go act on this, even if it makes you feel intimidated and nervous. Push through your comfort zone.
What would you suggest for more high-traffic areas during the day, especially where women could be found?
The city, in the heart of the city, or at lunch time, is a great place to meet women. A park is a place you can find a girl just sitting down by herself on a bench, eating her lunch. Go up and chat with her. The mall is a great place to meet women, because they’ve got a lot of time. They’re going to the mall to go shopping and are relatively happy about it.
For guys who are already going out there and trying to find girls during the day, but not having much luck with it, what are they doing wrong, in your opinion?
Most guys go out and try to pick up a girl, and even call it “pick up.” What I’m suggesting is that you do not do that; instead, go out and become more social. The social person will naturally get more women, and will naturally, organically have greater success, not the guy who’s trying to pick up or get a girl’s number.
So many things will happen when you start behaving this way.
You’ll build your confidence, get more friends, and have more value and security in yourself. Go out and don’t have any hidden motivations or intentions to try and pick up girls. Just go out with the intention of: having a good time, meeting someone new, and just enjoying yourself without thinking about the goal.
Finding females can be as simple as that.
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