If you want to have a successful first date, you want to ensure you’re able to read her signs. Learning how to read her signs will help you identify where you’re at, and what you need to do next to really amp up her attraction levels. I’m going to give you some concrete first date advice to make her get close to you.
I know when a girl is giving me little in the way of attraction I need to ramp up the flirtation a little more. If she’s really attracted to me, I need to start getting more sexual with her. If she’s getting sexual with me, I need to find a way to get her home; this is where when you know where she’s at really helps to identify how to interact with her on a first date.
Here are a few things you need to be aware of when you’re interacting with her.
1. Body Language
If the girl is nervous and she’s not entirely comfortable with you, her body language will be slightly away from you. Which just means she hasn’t opened up to you, she’s still feeling nervous and she’s just a little unsure about where things are going.
At that particular stage, you want to really work on getting her more comfortable, so it might be cracking a few jokes, it might be getting her to reveal a little more of herself to you. Just little things that really start to build her confidence levels up.
If she’s starting to move closer to you and finding ways to touch you, this is a really great thing because it shows that she’s becoming more attracted to you. When a girl does that to me, I start to then increase my more sexual side of things so perhaps maybe I’ll bring up sexual innuendo or start to get on the topic of sex. Ill also amp up my physical game and start to touch her, and really escalate on her in a physical way.
3. Eye Contact
Eye contact is another great sign that she’s really interested in you and, once again, this is where you might want to start being a little more sexual with her.
Now, if the point in the day if she’s is starting to get really close to you and perhaps maybe even start to kiss, then you want to be thinking how can I now move this to the next level and the next level might be taking her home, or perhaps having sex with her then and there.
4. Plan the Night
I really recommend also for first dates knowing her body language where she’s at, is also having a night planned out. So, often when I get on a date, I have an idea of where the night is going, I almost sometimes visualize the night heading out and I have a couple of back up plans.
I have also on a first date, if we can try to get to her to come to my place and come to my area. Getting her, first of all, to come to your place then going someplace together, will get her a little more comfortable with the idea of coming back to your place, which is great for leading things into sex.
So when you go on your first date, be very aware of the signs that she gives you. That will help make you more confident because you know how to read the situation a little better and it will help you act on every opportunity that presents itself.
It’s also important to have a plan, make sure you have structure to the night, so you never feel lost, or never feel like you have nowhere to go, and you’re lost of options. Have a couple of plans. Have an idea of how you’re going to bring her back to your place of perhaps go back to her place if the opportunity opens itself up to you.
It’s always good to have a plan. Coming up with a solid strategy to follow on your first dates will serve you well. If you’ve been wondering how to amp up your game on your dates, take a few short minutes and watch my FREE video. You’ll finally know how to seduce the hottest women…