“Dear Vin,
I’ve been having some decent success getting women to go on dates with me, but my first dates are often uncomfortable. I’m looking for a good way to do something that’s kind of different, but at the same time we get to learn about each other and maybe have the possibility for touching, and being close to each other; and obviously I’d like to escalate it to the point of getting to the bedroom on that first date if possible. I hope you can help me out.
Marko, – Barcelona”
I will share with you a date that I love to set up. It’s a taste testing date, where we basically take turns in selecting foods that we’re going to feed the other person. What we do is we blindfold them, and then they have to see if they can identify what the food is.
Tease her then please her -- the perfect first date.
The way that I present that to a girl, the way I frame it, is by telling her that we’re going to do this really exciting thing. I tell her that I want her to pick five foods that we can do this taste test on each other with, and that we’re just going to play a bit of a game. Some of the foods that are great for this are strawberries, other forms of berries, light cheese, chocolate fondue of any sort, icy pops, ice cream, and anything that is really sweet to taste.
The reason this is such a powerful date, and the reason it’s going to help move your interactions forward, is because it has a little bit of sexiness to it. The fact that she is being blindfolded and that you’re feeding her, brings up those kind of notions of a little bit of uncertainty for her; a little bit of doubt. She has to rely on you, you’re in complete control. It also takes care of other sensations as well. It really heightens the ability for her to take full advantage of her taste sensation, and also her touch sensation, because you’ve blindfolded her.
As you’re feeding her, your key to escalation is to use light touches on the side of her arm, which will greatly heighten the experience. Then you get to reverse the game so that she gets to play it on you. I like to focus on getting her to feed me first, and then feeding her second.
If you haven’t kissed a girl up to that point, and you feel like you’re moving things in a sexual direction, what you might be able to do is after you’ve given her the fifth piece of food, you might be able to tell her “I’ve got one more for you. I want you to see if you can work out what this one is”, and then lean in and kiss her.
That’s a great tip to use for guys who want to know how to gain self-confidence. However, if they’re already comfortable with kissing, then you won’t even need to do that; as she’ll be in the right mindset for that already. Then you can progress straight from that to the bedroom.
Closing the deal–
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