If you want to get the most out of your first date, learn the series of questions you can use to fish out the right info about her and learn as much as you can, so you can then determine whether she’s the right girl for you. These questions will help you have a successful first date.
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1. What Do You Do In Your Pastime?
First of all, you want to fish for commonalities. You want to see whether you guys are into similar things, you have things in common, and a couple of questions that can really help you get a little bit of an understanding of what she’s into include, “What do you do in your pastime?”
This question really starts to give you an idea about how she lives her life, what she does for fun, what are the things that she enjoys doing, and then you can get an idea whether that fits into things that you like to do for fun, whether she’s someone that would enjoy doing the things that you find fun.
2. What Are Your Passions?
The next question is, “What are your passions?” Find out what are the things that really get her up in the morning, that drive her in life, that make her happy, and see if they fit in with your commonalities. Finding commonalities is such a cool way to build a connection between two people, and if you can establish commonalities in your first date, then you’re really going to strengthen the chance of having a second encounter with her.
3. What Are Your Goals?
The third thing is to find out where she’s going in life. In order to do that, ask questions like, “What are your goals?” or, “What would be your dream lifestyle?” That gives you a bit of an indication of whether her direction in life is on the same path as myself.
If your feeling the girl is girlfriend material, it’s important to learn that your visions in life are on the same path. This question will help you decide whether you want to have a second date this girl, and it will allow you to eliminate any time wasters that don’t contribute to your life.
4. “What Do You Do on The Weekends?
The next question that you want to ask is to find out is how social she is, whether she’s an extroverted type of girl, or whether she’s an introverted type of girl. The questions to use to are, “What do you get up to on most weekends? What things do you like to do socially?” This will give you a bit of an indication as to whether she’s a homebody or whether she’s someone that thrives on having people around her in her life.
If you’re a more introverted guy, and you’ve got someone that is a massive social butterfly, then perhaps maybe you guys are going to clash a little bit in life, or perhaps maybe she’s an introverted girl that likes to stay home and is a bit of a homebody, and perhaps you are, too, and therefore you might be a really good fit for each other.
5. Who is Your Ideal Celebrity Guy?
Next is to find out what she’s looking for in a man. In order to establish whether you’re a guy that would be suitable to her, some questions you could ask is, “What celebrity drives you absolutely wild and what do you like about him?” Getting a bit of an indication about a celebrity that drives her wild, you start to get a bit of an understanding of the type of men that she goes for.
For example, if she really likes Vin Diesel and Colin Farrell, then maybe she really likes the edgy, bad boy type of guys, and she likes boys that might be quite masculine and a little bad boy-ish. If she likes a Ryan Gosling or a Ryan Reynolds, then maybe she really likes guys that are sensitive and caring. However, this gives you a bit of an idea of whether you fit into the mold of guys that she really likes.
Use these questions on your next first date and notice how smoothly the conversation flows as you get to know her without giving too much information, which will make you seem mysterious and interesting at the same time.