Yes, you may not have time for every fish in the sea,
but what if you could find your catch of the day?
Let’s say, I’m patiently waiting for the right girl;
how do I know when the right one is there?
How do I know when the right one bites?
I’m going to use your fish dating metaphor to answer your question.
First of all, I don’t think there’s a lot of value in going fishing, when you don’t have any bait on the hook.
If the guy is not actively going out and trying to meet women, he’s not going to have a lot of success. It’s the same with fishing – you need practice to get better at it. Likewise, there’s no point fishing in a pond that has no fish in it.
Hanging around places that are high traffic areas for other fishermen (other guys) is probably not going to assist him either.
You’ll be competing so much between each other that you’ll overfish and create problems for each other.
The third error is when guys are looking for trout, but fish in an area that only has cod or eels.
What I mean is guys who look in the wrong spot to begin with.
What I’d like guys to do is get a better idea of the types of girls they’re into. If a guy can actually get an image of 5 girls; maybe they’re girls that he knows, maybe they’re celebrities, or maybe they’re just aspects of his imagination where he’s taking different parts from different girls and combining them. But if he can come up with an image of 5 different girls that absolutely rock his world, he will have a much better screening process going forward to see who he is interested in.
We’re not talking about girls who are cute here, we’re talking about girls who really evoke some sort of emotional reaction in him.
What he can do is profile these girls and think to himself what places these girls would like to spend time at. What are the activities these girls like to do? It’s very important to know where to look, so you can maximize the use of your time when you’re going fishing to pickup girls.
Also, think about what these particular girls are going to find attractive in a guy.
That way he can work on the bait; by which I mean developing his personality, developing his image, and improving his lifestyle.
What you’ll find is that if a guy works on developing a particular image, then almost instantly a certain percentage of the population will be attracted to him. And this before he’s even said a word, just because of what his image represents.
When I work with most of the guys who come and see me for coaching, it’s really evident to me that they don’t have any sort of image. They’re either too bland, or they don’t know what they’re trying to say with the clothes they’re wearing or the way they move. Think about those for a moment, as they are a good starting point to improving the quality of the bait that guys are putting out there.
In terms of identifying the right places go fishing, it can also be a good idea to think about where this particular type of girl would like to hang out.
Ask yourself, as a seasoned fisherman, “Where would there be good opportunities for me to meet lots of women that are biting?” An example of that might be a single’s event in which you’re going to have between 100 to 200 women available. Not only do you know that they’re single, but you also know they’re looking to get together with guys, and they’re all hanging around in one spot!
Having said that, singles events are usually appealing to quite a general audience. While they are a high traffic area for women, if ultimately these aren’t the types of girls that you’re interested in, then you need to be a little more creative and think of other ways in which you might be able to meet these girls.
Now that you know how to find, bait, and hook your perfect girl it’s time to find out how to get into her brain, understand her “type” and combine this with three powerful questions that will get her to fall in love with you when you’re ready. You’ve got to start from the moment you meet her for the best results so go watch this video before it’s too late, and you bump into the woman of your dreams.