Are you one of those guys who would love to flirt like a pro? Many guys are clueless when it comes to flirting.
How do you tell a guy how to flirt? What are some great tips on how to flirt? What are things that you often see guys doing wrong when they’re first learning to flirt? Let me offer some easy advice, because in reality, flirting is all in the action.
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The biggest key in learning how to flirt starts with subtlety.
All flirting involves is the ability to express yourself in a sexual way and being able to express your sexual interest in a woman without being overt about it. You do it in a way that sort of flies under the radar; it’s there, but it lies right beneath the surface.
She’s aware of it but it’s not so direct that she has to respond to it, or become offended. It involves being playful and having fun. To be honest, the best way for you to learn to become a better flirt is to watch women do it. Women have an uncanny ability for charming guys, they seem to be inherently born with the ability to flirt without even trying.
It seems to be innately engrained in their being. You want learn how to flirt like a pro? Watch a pro, because women have this ability like nothing I have ever seen!
Focus on the power of contrast.
Contrast works in a way that allows a certain part of your personality or expression to be quite direct, whilst the other part of your personality is quite indirect. As an example you might choose to be indirect with your verbal communication, concentrating on bland topics, but beneath the surface you are sending her strong messages through your non verbal communication.
When you are communicating, your eye contact, hand gestures, and the inflection in your voice can relay how you are feeling at any given time. Body language is a powerful thing, and women spot cues in body language better than anyone. If you don’t believe me watch a woman flirt. Watch her body language. It’s all there.
When you are communicating in this matter, what’s happening between you is all non verbal. The actions of your body have nothing to do with what is being said. In fact, with women, it’s not necessarily what you say that makes the difference, it’s how you say it.
Remember the old saying “actions speak louder than words”. It’s very true when it comes to non verbal cues and flirting. So, if you can master the art of getting your feeling across without speaking them, then that, really, is what flirting is all about.
When you are speaking with someone you just met, or a woman who attracts you and turns you on, you can communicate on a nonverbal level that shows a clear sexual intent.
Non verbal cues are important when flirting.
The eye contact you use is completely different, depending on who you are speaking with. As you’re talking with an attractive woman, I’m positive that your eye contact is way different then the eye contact you use when you are speaking with your mother or your sister.
As you flirt, use nonverbal cues like biting your bottom lip or just slightly wetting your top lip. There is some powerful body language going on when you start to play with your hair a little, or you play with your belt buckle. Having that power of contrast can be very powerful.
Flirting is an indirect approach in telling a woman you want her.
When you communicating verbally, you can directly tell a woman what it is that she’s doing to you on a physical and emotional level. But being direct can often sound crass, rude, and crude. Honey attract bees better than vinegar. Sweet compliments and sending sexual messages non-verbally work much better at conveying your interest and keeping her engaged.
Women understand flirting, and love non-verbal communication. They like teasing, playfulness, and the gentle non-verbal tugging back and forth that all define flirting. Flirting like a pro is not difficult at all. Learn to communicate indirectly, because you’ll keep her attraction where it belongs; on you!
When you apply these secrets along with the ones in my free online video, you’ll be a pro with women in no time. If you have a hard time flirting with females, take a few short minutes and watch my FREE video. You’ll finally know how to flirt with – and attract – the hottest women…