No matter the intentions or promises made sometimes it gets more serious then either of you intended.
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Be realistic… emotions will be involved.
What one can realize is that no matter what they try to do, there will be some level of emotion involved, even if the emotion is just fun. We are human beings, we have emotions, we’re emotional creatures we have brains, we have emotional responses. It’s the way we are wired. Anyone trying to start these types of relationships is fooling themselves in thinking there is not going to be any emotions. Keep in mind that emotions are going to be involved no matter what is a really good place to start from and it’s good to be realistic about things. Now you know that emotions are going to be involved, what you want to do is decide which emotions you want to feel the most.
You’re fooling yourself in the beginning if you think it’s going to be fun and you’re not going to get into those deeper emotions. Or if one person’s fooling himself thinking, “I really like this woman but I don’t want anything serious. I am going to try friends with benefits with her. “
Ask the important questions.
If you’re thinking like this, it’s really important to ask yourself these important questions. Am I going to feel bad if this person sleeps with someone else? Am I going to feel bad if this person doesn’t end up liking me as much as I like them? Or is that person going to feel bad if I don’t like them as much as they like me? Ask yourself these types of questions before getting into these types of benefit relationships. Ask yourself if this friendship is more important than just sleeping with a friend.
You need to know yourself.
For some guys, this is the perfect setup. For other guys, this would never work.If you can be mature enough to agree with each other that neither of you is possessive or insecure and neither of you are interested attachments, then go for it, I would highly encourage it. If that’s not the case then be realistic and be honest with yourself. The better you know yourself, then the more likely this will work for you.
Be honest with you.
That’s what I want to get across, are you really being honest with yourself when it comes to these relationships. If you really believe that it would be better to be sex buddies and can keep love out of the picture then that is cool for you. But, if you are thinking that somewhere down the road that this woman might mean more to you, then you need to me upfront with her about it. I mean, if she doesn’t want or see that future for you two, you are setting yourself up to be hurt and disappointed. You owe it to each other to make the future just as clear as the present with it comes to being friends with benefits and preparing for emotions to come in to play.
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