Is your girlfriend playing games with you?
Are you always at her mercy?
Do you feel like you have to do everything just the way she wants or you won’t get any?
Are you having to buy her lots of gifts, so she’ll sleep with you?
There’s no reason you should ever feel this way in a relationship, but we’ll talk about why it happens and how to avoid it.
I wanted to talk about games… you know, those games that girlfriends play.
I guess the one thing guys should never do is get so caught up in a woman’s push and pull games. Don’t be the sort of guy who’s trying to give her answers and solutions to all of her problems. A lot of times, she just wants you to listen and just be there, so she can vent out all her emotional anxieties and worries to a listening ear. She wants you to be her shoulder to cry on.
So I guess one of the games not to play with your girlfriend, is simply buying into her drama and getting all worked up and caught up in that.
Know which games to play with her and which to avoid
For a lot of women, they actually really like drama, especially a Gemini woman and they’ll look for it anywhere they can find it. Finally, they’ll look for that in you. Don’t tolerate that sort of behavior. It sets the tone for things and means she can come at you with all kinds of drama, whenever she wants when you let her get away with it once.
Girlfriend power games are another of those nasty little games.
Never let her force you to do things that you don’t want to do or try to blackmail you into things. Don’t let yourself get into a position in a relationship where she is using sex as leverage on you. For one thing, if she’s the sort of girl who needs someone to really ravish her, take control of her, and give her the space to really feel comfortable to open up, then you want to prepare for this sort of behavior. If you’re the sort of guy that is needy on her, just to get sex, then over time, she isn’t going to be attracted to you.
You definitely want to do your best to allow her to contribute to your life and know that she is needed in your life in a way where, you reward her with sex, as opposed to, the other way around.
All in all, it depends on the games that your girlfriend is trying to play.
The other thing I notice is that a lot of couples in relationships get trapped in this situation, where they’re always around each other 24 hours a day. I don’t know what it is, but some even become hermits and stop going out at all. If you really want to have a happy relationship and keep building and strengthening that bond, then give her a bit of space and don’t let her be the sort of girl that tells you that you can’t go and see your friends.
You must spend time away from each other.
I think for a lot of people the worry is that, if their partner is away from them, that there’s a good opportunity someone else will pick them up. If you have that uncertainty about your relationship, then I have to wonder why you’re in the relationship in the first place.
That sexual tension can actually be a really good thing.
If you’re confident and you know your girlfriend is going to come back to you, then there’s no harm in her flirting with other guys, because when she comes home, those guys will have flirted with her and got her all excited, and you’ll be the guy to have sex with her. Flirting, flattery, knowing she is attractive to other men is a sure way to see your girl get turned on, and then you get to reap the reward at home.
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