Get Girls to Like You
Maybe if I turn around and look at her she'll like me more?
Can you give us 5 ways to get girls interested in you in a nightclub, without having to go up to them?
You want to go to a club and not be that guy who keeps talking, going up and approaching lots of women, guys think how to impress a woman is by wearing some crazy five foot hat or crazy outfit by attracting their attention. It’s definitely a good idea to want to gain their attention, but you do not want to look ridiculous in the process.
There’s two ways you can do this. The first one would be to simply enjoy yourself and have fun. If you are just standing there with your back against the wall, not talking too much, or sitting with your drink, leering around; if you are looking at girls and not approaching them -- that’s just creepy.
If you are there enjoying yourself, having a good time, smiling, making jokes, laughing, and engaged with whatever is going on around you, that is going to get some attention. You are not looking for attention in and of itself. You are just thoroughly enjoying yourself -- and that’s very attractive to onlookers.
The second way would be to have your own style and be well groomed. If you don’t look like everybody else, then you are going to stand out and get some attention. This is not because you wear some outrageous outfit; this is because you have your style locked down.
You know what your look and image are and you really rock that and own that. Then, girls are going to look at you and say, “I like this guy. He’s got style. What he wears; the way he wears it; that’s kind of cool.”
Another thing to do right now, or whenever you walk into a bar, or all the time when walking around, is to be the tallest person in the room. You might be less than 5 feet tall, but if you are standing in a straight, tall posture, looking really confident, it will help you enormously.
The way that you hold yourself -- your head held high, your shoulders back, your chest out, keeping a good posture, a strong eye contact, and a good gait -- will make you stand out. Girls notice these things. It might seem small, but girls do notice them.
The next one would be to stand with your back to the bar. You should be leaning on the bar or standing in a way that you have a good vantage point of the whole room. Get somewhere where you have a good vantage point of the whole room -- that’s usually when you are standing with your back to the bar, chilling.
My friends and I used to do this, just chill on the bar, not going anywhere. Girls come up to you all the time ordering drinks. You can talk to them if you want to. They are not going anywhere; they are just waiting to order a drink. That’s a very clever little thing you can do.
The last tip, which I would say is the best, is, if you are going to a club, bar, or lounge, before you go there, make friends with the staff members a little bit earlier, when they are just opening and setting up. Go in and make friends with the bouncers, the managers, the bar girls and guys.
Talk to them, be interested in them, leave them feeling good, and leave the interaction with them being happier. Get to know them a little bit, making sure you introduce yourself and get their names -- and remember their names. Then, when you go to the venue later on, there are lots of girls there, and you are talking to the staff members like you have known them for years, which is how you should be talking to them – the girls are going to notice that.
That is going to bring their attention to you, while they wonder who you are, if you are someone famous, or work there. You will get them thinking about you, rather than all the other guys running around and doing their things, dancing or ordering drinks. That’s going to set you apart from everyone else. Discover how to get noticed and project confidence from across the room…
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