Virtually almost every woman in the world is at your fingertips and you can get laid tonight – there’s really no reason to not have online hookups. You’re missing out on potentially millions of hot, willing woman that are horny as hell and just waiting to hear the right thing to set them off.
How do you get a girl hot through sexual chat online?
Chat rooms and IM have some big advantages over face to face conversations. It’s almost like with the girl being able to hide behind the computer screen she feels like she has a little bit more anonymity so it will generally allow her to get into that playful sexual state a lot quicker. I think there are a few keys to guide you with instant messaging to get the girl.
The first one is you want to get into back and forth writing and you want to build momentum.
It’s likely if you are on facebook and she is chatting with you, that she may have 3 or 4 other people that she is chatting with at the same time. So just getting into that short punchy back and forth thing is really critical.
That starts with you making sure that you are responding to her messages quickly. If she doesn’t reciprocate that, and you feel like you are responding straight away but she isn’t, well then do the opposite. Start to take twice as long to reply to her as she replies to you, and that might spur her to get more involved.
The second key is to talk about things that are exciting and fun that you have been doing and talking about your own life can be a good way to get her interested in you.
I would like to get guys to focus on having three passions in life that they are working towards, and three things that have happened in the last week or are likely to happen in the week ahead that they are also passionate about.
If guys have those six things running through the back of their minds they will find that they are always able to talk about things that they are enthusiastic about and girls really respond warmly to that.
The third key is making sure that you take things in a sexual direction.
You can do that with short punchy innuendoes. You can intentionally misinterpret something that she said. You can also have some prepared lines, like asking a girl what she is wearing right now, or what she is thinking right at that moment. Depending on how she responds you can become a bit more playful. So often I can actually move the interaction from being just short punchy friendly lines to being sexual within one line. Once you get it there, I think role-play can be another good thing.
Ultimately you can get instant messaging to a point where you can take it extremely sexual, but it’s all about just building a little bit of momentum from the start, getting her hooked so that she is communicating back and forth with you, and then moving it to a more sexual place.
How would you close it from there? Do you want to just keep it to chat or do you move it to meeting her in real life?
I think that’s a really good point. Once you have got her hot and into you, you actually want to be able to close then and there. You don’t want to build that sexual tension and then let it dissipate and then try and close it a day later. I would often just close in the instant chat. I’ll ask her what she is doing later that night and maybe let her know that I am like incredibly into her right there in instant chat.
If we are communicating back and forth and things are moving sexually I can tell her that she is making me horny. I definitely think that being able to strike while the iron is hot and close on the spot is really important.
You can move things forward immediately on instant chat or you can just say “You know what, my fingers are getting sore. Why don’t you give me your number and we will continue this over the phone.” My preference is probably just to stick with instant chat but different guys have different strengths. When you can close with a girl on chat and move forward to voice chatting or meeting face to face you are really on your way to getting the sex life you are looking to gain.
Find out exactly what to say to get her hot and bothered online or through text messaging and close the deal tonight.