Do you find yourself lacking motivation? Is it hard for you to get out of bed because you feel like there is not point? Perhaps you have nothing that excites you, or nothing motivating you. Well, I’m here to help. I’m going to share my advice on how to get motivated and make a change!
During my seminars held throughout the world, I always ask guys what they want to work on and the most common answer is ‘motivation.’ It’s very common for guys to struggle with motivation to go out, meet girls and stay energized through the process.
Maybe they have a bad weekend, a few dates go poorly, or maybe they get rejected. It can crush your motivation and cause you to struggle. Plus, a lot of guys start to become aware of what they need to do to get good with women and it feels overwhelming. Then they end up giving up or just doing a very small amount of what they need to do.
I am going to teach you how to greatly increase your motivation, which in turn will lead to better results.
What’s your favorite way to get motivated? Comment below!
1. Dating is NOT Work
Make the process fun! You have to make improving with girls more enjoyable. I think a lot of guys falsely see it as work. They see it as something that’s difficult or hard to do and this effects their motivation.
For example, I enjoy going on dates and regardless of what happens at the end, I still have fun. I’m hanging out with a girl, we’re talking, and we’re doing different things. It’s enjoyable. I don’t know how guys can personally see it as a negative. Maybe they didn’t pick her up, maybe she didn’t call them again, and now they get down and out about it.
2. Enjoy the Date
Have fun on the date, make every part of it fun. Everything from going out, to socializing, to meeting people, to talking to women, and to attempting to close the deal, make each aspect fun. Flirting can be extremely fun, just tease each other and enjoy being out.
It’s not meant to be work, it’s not meant to be hard, and it’s not meant to be overwhelming. It’s just designed to be one of life’s pleasures. Personally, when I think about going out and meeting women as a fun activity, regardless of whatever end result tends to happen. You’re not always going to score or win, but have fun playing the game!
If you think of going out as a daunting task, of course you will have no motivation to get up and go. If you think of dating as a fun and enjoyable game, you will easily get out of bed and get ready.
Stop sulking and being lazy. Get up, get dressed and go have some fun!
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