Get To The Next Level when Meeting Women
Are you passionate enough for her?
When I see a guy talking to a woman he likes, I can instantly tell exactly what he thinks about meeting women and what he will say to women.
In this article, I'll let you know exactly what I see, when I’m watching a typical guy approach and talk to a woman he’s attracted to.
For starters, it seems like he is thinking ‘I hope this works’, ‘I’m trying to pick you up’, ‘please respond nicely, I’m pretty scared’, and "let’s try and figure out what I can do to get a result.'
These are not bad thoughts. They are much better than being too nice and not making any effort to get sexual with her.
That said, there is a much better way to think about meeting women; there is the next level up. Guys, who operate on this higher level, approach girls in a very different way. These guys go for the experience. What this means is that when this type of guy meets women, his focus is on the experience.
Enjoy your experience.
The experience has everything to do with how fun it is, how much he is enjoying it, how much she is enjoying it, and how much they both enjoy the things they do together. You will recognize this type of guy, because he is smiling, touching, moving with his girl, dancing, and progressing towards his goal step-by-step.
On the other hand, guys operating at lower levels are boring to watch. They look like a statues, or look like they are begging for girls to notice them. These guys do not have passion for meeting women. They only want to do what works, then move on, and they only want a result. They are like someone who is only working for the money. They punch the clock, never outdo themselves, and generally do not perform very well.
You must become passionate about women.
Passion is really important, if you want to get good with girls.
You must be able to enjoy the process of experimenting, improving, learning, and taking more risks. Even when something you try doesn't work, the experience can still be fun. You can still take positives from it.
Don't get frustrated easily. Don't be impatient. Don't focus too much on the results when you first start, because this will hurt your confidence.
With passion, almost everything else will happen naturally.
Every guy that is world-class with women is also passionate about them. He likes new experiences with women. He enjoys meeting new women. He enjoys connecting with new women. One of my favorite experiences (with women) is going to really cool places for dates, going to fun events and festivals, and exploring the world with them.
Let’s face it, having an attractive woman to share things with makes everything more fun.
Let go of your desperate mindset, where you are living in fear and forgetting the point of meeting women – to make life more enjoyable. Don't be so overly concerned about what to say to women. Instead, just do it and enjoy the experience. You can start doing this immediately, no matter what level you are at.
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