Get Women to Approach You
What really are the best ways to get women to approach you? One of the transition points where men have a lot of questions is about when you meet women that are part of your social network, or friends of friends, how do you move these women from being just friends, to maybe something more sexual? How do you get women to approach you and take that step? Or, how do you get women to approach you and see you as being someone they want to spend more time with?
The best way to do that is to make sure when you're at social gatherings that you spend one-on-one time with each person. You know that you have everything working right when you begin to get women to approach you. It's certainly much easier than you approaching them. This could be all the men, this could be all the women, but make sure you're in the habit of working your way around the group. Once you are introduced and say hello to them a few times, then it will switch around, and you'll get women to approach you, instead of you approaching them.
Let me give you some ideas on becoming more social:
Say you go to a house party. Make sure you give everyone two to three minutes of one-on-one time. Make sure you have the ability to work your way around the social group or around a bunch of friends and increase your opportunities to get women to approach you. Because it's really during this one-on-one time that you can feel whether there's more potential for more. You can think of it like speed dating. Only you are going to talk to men and women, because the more connections you make in life, the better chance you will have to either meeting or being directed to the right woman. You can feel whether it might be appropriate to ask for a number, ask a woman out, or maybe even take her home from the party.
Now, how does this work into getting a woman to approach you?
What you'll find is getting women to come and talk to you is much easier, if you already know them. I have a friend who, when he goes to a bar or club, makes a point to say hello to everyone there. When they walk past, get a drink, or go to the toilet, he says a quick hello again. So, within an hour or so, he's actually said hello to everyone in the whole venue twice or even three times. This gives him a feeling of familiarity and comfort with everyone there. This is by far the best way to get women to approach you. It taps the power of familiarity. They kind of feel relaxed coming and saying hello to you, or connecting with you. You've got to make women feel comfortable, this is the real way to get women to approach you.
Ultimately it isn't a big deal for women to come and approach you, because they feel like they kind of know you a little bit already. When I'm part of a social network or group, I always make sure I do one-on-one time with people. It might be just a quick 30 or 60 second conversation, just to ask them why they're there, give them a compliment, or just to get to know them a little bit. What this does is gives me a real powerful sense of familiarity, getting to know people, and making connections.
By my being friendly, it makes people feel very comfortable coming up to me and asking me something or getting to know me. Because a lot of people in these situations are shy, nervous, and feel a little bit insecure, even women do. It makes them feel good that they know someone, and are able to join in with your conversations, or get you to introduce them to other people. You kind of want to be that man who knows everyone. He's known as a connector, but really, he gets women to approach him because he's just the friendly man in the room. And when your perceived as friendly, you will get women to approach you a lot quicker. How much easier can it be?
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