Are you having trouble dealing with a breakup? Do you really want to get your ex-girlfriend back?
We’ve all been there before. We’ve had great relationships where we shared incredible moments with each other, and enjoyed each other’s company, but then for whatever reason the relationship ended. In some sense this is absolutely natural, it’s just what humans do.
So if you find yourself in a position where you’ve lost a great part of your life, and you really want to know how to get an ex back, it’s important for you to understand the following two concepts above all else. In fact, it wouldn’t hurt to make them your personal mantra for the next few weeks while you’re still dealing with your breakup.
#1 – Neediness is the number one turnoff for women.
That means you can’t be too persistent or needy in trying to get her back. Women want what they can’t have. If you’re expressing too much attention and showing her that you want her back, then all you’re actually doing is pushing her away, and she’ll become uninterested.
Neediness is treated as weakness, so avoid it like the plague. What that means is that you should severely limit your contact with her, regardless of whether it’s through Facebook or constant texting, and definitely don’t call her much. Rather let her call you.
In fact, it might be advantageous for you to completely cut off all contact with her, at least temporarily. This will give her the sense that you’re ‘over’ her, which will make her want you even more.
#2 – Move on with your life.
Do stuff that makes you happy, stuff that makes you smile. If you’re not passionate about something already, then put all your energy towards finding that passion, because life is so much better with something to be passionate about, and passions or hobbies are probably the best way to deal with a breakup, since they take your mind off of your relationship problems.
Fixating on the past is a bad idea regardless, but it is especially so if your goal is to get your ex-girlfriend back. If you’re constantly musing on what you’ve lost, you’re going to radiate a bitter sadness and neediness, even if you’re not consciously aware of it.
Put another way, happy thoughts = happy body language.
Imagine two people sitting in a bar, side by side. One of them has sad thoughts, so they’re slouching, they’ve got a frown, and they just seem to exude this unpleasant air of negativity.
The other guy is excited about new plans he’s made for some hobby he’s really passionate about, so he’s sitting upright, full of energy, and smiling for seemingly no reason.
Which of these two guys is going to have the most success with women? If you were a woman, who would you approach?
The world has no inherent mood or color; we decide that ourselves through our perspective, and the lens with which we look at things.
And when you discover and release that happy, passionate and exciting guy deep inside of you, your chances of getting your ex back, or any other girl you take a liking to skyrocket!
If you want more life-changing advice, then why not open Pandora’s Box?