She did it with him, why not with me?
Nothing is more frustrating then when a girl talks about what she did with another guy but won’t do now. What secret did he know that you don’t? How did he get her to do all those things? The same things you want now.
I love my girlfriend but can’t get her to be more open minded.
How to make her feel more comfortable? How do guys specifically go about making girlfriend comfortable with things that are new?
If it’s not part of the girl’s natural personality, then you have to realize it’s going to be a work in progress. Encouraging her to try new things and be supporting of her will assist. If you’re incredibly open minded yourself, then that’s going to happen. We find that when a guy has a certain trait that he’s known for, or is strong and resonates quite powerfully, often the girl will be able to pick up on that trait and she will naturally change her personality to match his energy.
Girls are a chameleon naturally, so they’ll actually adapt who they are, to fit into their environment.
Maybe that’s one of the reasons she’s attracted to you? She sees that you’re open minded and she sees that you don’t judge people, so just being around you will definitely assist in that process.
Early in the relationship you want to be very clear about some of the personal characteristics and qualities that you appreciate in people. If you make it known to her that you value people who are open minded, then she’s going to be more likely to shift her personality to fall in line with that.
The way you do that, is you can give evidence from your life.
It doesn’t have to be other girls you’re around, it could be a friend of yours. You say, “I really like my friend Phil, he’s one of the most open minded people in the world. I feel like I can be myself one hundred percent around him and he won’t judge me for my quirky behaviors. It’s so refreshing when you find people like that.”
By you being able to highlight what’s important to you, she will be more likely to fall in line with those behaviors, if you place an emphasis on it.
The final point about being open minded is to teach people that it’s okay for them be one hundred percent themselves. They shouldn’t feel guilt or any sense of repression from being who they are. To thine own self be true!
When you’re trying to encourage a girl to be open minded, what you’re saying to her is that you want her to be able to accept people as they are. When you frame it that way, it makes it a lot easier for her to accept that as a quality. You’re also letting her know that it is okay for her to be who she is, truly and deeply, in your presence.
You create an aura of acceptance and understanding with this sort of attitude.
This opens the door, so that you can improve your communication and make it excellent, which is the best foundation of any relationship. People want to know that they are heard and understood. Everyone wants to feel accepted for who they are. This forms the basis of unconditional love and understanding, which can be a beautiful thing.
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