So, how do you get the edge that makes girls pay attention?
First of all, the edge has everything to do with your attitude. Guys that have the edge have a confident attitude. They are prepared to go against the grain and not be a conformist. They take risks, they live a little on the edge, and with this kind of unpredictability and confidence, they find attracting women easy. You can have these traits in your life by simply becoming more of a risk taker.
Learn to take risks…
Taking risks can really change your life and help you become more attractive. I know when I started to take more risks, I started to move closer to the life that I envisioned. One really good trait that helped me break past my fear was writing down what was the worst-case scenario if I took a risk and everything went wrong.
A simple exercise to help you…
What would be the absolute worst-case scenario if you were ignored, and if that worst-case scenario happened, how would you then get out of it and get life back on track? By doing this simple exercise, it taught me that the worst-case scenario was never really that bad and what was holding me back from pushing past my fears was stupid.
So, this weekend, when you’re going to approach a girl, think about the worst possible thing that could happen. She may reject you, she may tell you to get lost, but really, is that a bad thing? Are you going to be able to recover? And after she does that, will you still be breathing? Will you still be standing? Of course you will!
Consider your style and what you wear…
Guys like Colin Farrell, Johnny Depp, and Russell Brand have distinctive styles, and it suits them, works to their personalities, and makes them a lot more intriguing to look at.
So, think about what sort of style can suit your personality. For guys, it is easy to look stylish at a cheap price. If budget is an issue for you, you can easily get some decent clothes and look cool and edgy without having to blow your total budget.
If you want to change your wardrobe and get some style, I really recommend looking for GQ, reading some fashion blogs, and even going through some gossip magazines that have men on there that women find sexy and see the style that they have that you can replicate in your own wardrobe.
Be mysterious and interesting…
Becoming attractive is easy. When you meet women, don’t give too much of yourself away. Keep them wanting to know more. I know I had a habit of spilling everything about myself on the first date to a girl and, eventually, she would never call back because she just lost interest!
There was nothing more to discover about me. I had given everything away. I told her all about my life. I had to learn to hold a lot of that stuff back. Give her a little bit, but not too much, and put more of the focus on her.
I’d love to hear from you!
When you know what it takes to get the edge, you don’t have to be good looking, nor do you have to wear the latest designer clothes. If you have any comments about this article or have any queries about ways you can get the edge with women, please feel free to leave them in the box below.
I look forward to reading all your comments and try to respond as much as possible. So, what is the edge? An edge is something that guys have that makes them stand out from the crowd, makes them interesting, makes them intriguing, even slightly mysterious. Think Colin Farrell, Johnny Depp, Russell Brand – they own their identity, they have the edge. They stand out from any other guy and almost draw women to them like a magnet.