Girls love to “fix” a guy but you’ll never attract a girl with some of these habits…
The thing with girls that go to the gym is, because they’re consciously working on making themselves fitter, healthier, and more attractive, that then becomes something that they value in guys.
If you have no focus on improving yourself physically, that’s going to put you behind the eight ball a little bit with the girl. What women need is a guy who is improving in his life.
It’s not necessarily the be-all and end-all, because you can take that value of working on yourself and becoming a better person and incorporate it into other areas of your life.
Maybe if you don’t have a huge focus on physical fitness and it’s not something that’s very important to you, but you do have a focus on becoming more financially independent and making more money and setting up profitable and beneficial businesses, then that quality of working on yourself and improving yourself and being the best person that you can be will already be ticked off.
There’s other ways that you can focus on becoming the best person that you want to be.
Ultimately, your motivation for becoming this better version of yourself shouldn’t be that we know there’s some sort of benefit to it. It should be because you want what’s best for you, and I think if guys come with the wrong motivation to begin with, the problem will be that they won’t have the consistency and the diligence to be able to see it through. That’s the first thing.
Now, let’s say we are going to the gym and are working on becoming fit and healthier.
When we see a really cute girl, how do we then and go out and introduce ourselves to her and maybe escalate things?
I think the first starting point is, you want to just keep things nice and playful. You don’t want to come up too direct, because if you’re too direct, the situation is a little bit awkward to begin with. If you’re too direct and she doesn’t respond warmly to it, it just makes it more and more challenging for you to approach other girls later in the gym. This is important when it comes to us learning how to pick up women at the gym.
My focus, when I’m hitting on girls in the gym, is just keeping things at a nice, playful level.
Maybe find out who she is, a little bit about her, what she does for work, how often she comes to the gym, things like that. Then, what I can do is start to build some momentum, whether it be within that particular workout or over the space of a couple of days.
Once you’ve built some momentum, it’s really easy.
You just say, “You know what? You’re a really interesting girl. I’d love to get to know you a little bit more outside of this setting,” or, “What do you say we exchange numbers and I’ll give you a call sometime and we’ll organize a time to catch up?”
If you’ve gone through that process and you have something positive going on in your life, you’ll find that a lot of girls at the gym are excited about the prospect of being with someone, who does have that particular positive focus going on for them.
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