If you want to get good with women fast, then consider getting a mentor.
We live in a fast paced world where success is demanded almost overnight. Can this be done with dating and romance? When guys are looking to improve successes with women, finding a dating mentor can fast track your success. A mentor can help you open a whole new world of women that is like heaven to unexperienced guys.
Be around guys who are good with women.
Being around guys who are good with women can not only be a role model for you, but can open up your reality. They can open you up and show you things you probably didn’t think were possible and show you how to be more of an opportunist. You might be walking down the street and are blind to what is happening around you. You might be walking with them, and suddenly they create an opportunity out of nothing, because they’ve seen a girl waiting for a tram, and they go up and chat with her.
There are opportunities everywhere.
You wouldn’t have seen that chance, right? You would probably have looked down the road and not even seen her. Some men have an innate ability to make opportunities happen. What that starts to do is expand your reality a bit more and open your mind to possibilities you never thought possible. You can learn so much from a dating expert. Seeing these expert dating guys while they interact with women, converse, use body language, talk — the flirty conversations and banter that they have with women – and seeing the way women respond back to them is a lesson in itself.
At the time, you might not be able to analyze it, but you might be able to subtly pick up on things that can help you with your own dating game, and start to take on a bit more of their persona, until you start to create your own persona. They can also mentor you as you interact with women, picking up on things that you’re not doing right or identifying opportunities that you might not be seeing and taking action on.
They can kick you up the ass, too. It’s a very hard thing, initially, going up and approaching women. We make many excuses to ourselves not to do it, because it’s a lot more comfortable standing aside and watching her walk on, or praying that she’s going to walk up to you, instead of going over there to her and having the balls to do anything about it. A guy who’s great with women, if he’s a friend of yours, could also be a fitness coach, where he’s kicking you up the ass to go that extra mile. That might be the little spark that you need to start improving your game and help you meet more women in your life.
How to get a mentor?
Generally, if you approach as a cool dude guy who’s not going to sap the life out of them, but could be fun to have a beer with — I’m sure, if you approach them in the right way, they’ll more than likely want to help you out.
Most people are nice and if asked may want to act as a mentor. You might also say, “If you can help me a little bit, I’ll buy you dinner or buy you a couple of beers,” or something like that in return for their help, premising your request in that way by asking them nicely. What’s the worst that can happen? If they say no — big deal. It’s definitely worth the effort for your own self-development and improvement.
By now you realize that having great friends who are also dating mentors is about more than just picking the first dating guru who drops in your lap. You can find great mentors everywhere!
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