So you want to know how to attract a woman, but are worried you don’t “have what it takes”? Then it’s a good thing that most of what we believe about attraction is completely wrong!
How many of these common misconceptions did you believe in?
The most common misconception is about looks. Guys think that girls only go for good-looking guys.
Many guys have success with women even though they are very far from attractive in terms of looks, they have no money, and they’re not even necessarily that confident, instead being a bit more reserved. But what they do have is an interest in women.
They’re interested in women, they have respect for women, and they’re good to them. They also know how to touch a woman and escalate. All of these things are going to work in your favor when it comes to attracting women, certainly a lot more than just looking good but being unable to go anywhere with the relationship.
Confidence – believe it or not.
Even confidence is a bit of a misconception. Guys don’t have to be that confident. Or at least, there are different types of confidence.
There’s the overt, pushing in front of a line, jerk kind of confidence. That certainly has an appeal to some women, but those probably aren’t women you want to be with anyway!
The other type is the quiet, confident guy who is comfortable in his own skin. Comfortable enough that he doesn’t have to push people around or act in an arrogant and rude way. That’s the kind of confidence that real high quality women fall for. Do stuff that is really hard and difficult while no-one is watching to build that deep inner confidence.
Having a poor body image can also be an issue that you need to beat.
Another huge misconception is the need to impress women. First of all, having lots of women around you will only make those girls jealous who have a very low self-esteem. High quality girls aren’t interested in how many women you have, since they don’t feel the need to be competitive that way.
Buying women lots of gifts, and showering them with money, is also a big no-no. If you need to give a girl gifts all the time just to get her to sleep with you, you’re definitely doing something wrong.
For one thing, you’re treating her like a prostitute. You’re basically indirectly paying her to get in bed with you. What kind of a message does that send, and do you want to get into a relationship with a woman who only cares about how much stuff you give her?
I don’t know about you, but that sounds like a pretty poor foundation for a relationship.
What does matter.
The people who learn to attract women without these classical characteristics like money, looks, or overt confidence, are usually people who have a very positive effect on others – they leave other people feeling better off when they meet them, and in that way they provide value to an interaction. It’s not surprising then that women want to be around them, since they make them happier!
They certainly would never make fun of a woman, especially if she’s telling them about something that’s hard to confess to or might be embarrassing.
Get in the mood for doing favors for people around you, complimenting people on a regular basis, and just being kind and supportive. All these things are going to make other people feel better off knowing you, and it’s going to prove to you yourself that you’re a person of value.
The Nice Guy.
There’s this meme going around that nice guys always finish last. While there’s certainly some truth to that, we need to identify why this is the case. Nice guys finish last because nice guys never escalate! They just confine themselves to the friend zone by never touching her, or never making a move. But that’s nothing to do with nice per se.
I promise you that a nice, supportive, and respectful guy who does escalate properly, and who also has the balls to make a move, is going to be VERY successful in the dating world.
So what does this mean for you? I imagine that if you’re reading this article, you’re probably not having a lot of natural success with women.
Well, what if I told you that building character and being considerate of women is just one of many things you could do. What if I told you that there’s a scientific pickup method, that can lead to success for absolutely any guy? The best way to learn to attract women is to use science. To figure out female psychology, and then use that knowledge to ensure massive success with women.
It’s called Pandora’s Box, and this is one opportunity you are not going to want to miss.