Want to know how you can get a girlfriend, but worried that you won’t be to succeed? Worry no more! I’m here to help you, and I’m going to give you some steps on how you can get a girlfriend in 21 days just by learning how to get comfortable with rejection.
Understanding the fear…
Guys will often limit their opportunities with women by holding onto this fear of being rejected. As soon as you can let that fear go, you will become more comfortable with rejection and learn that you can be attractive and find a woman easy. Then you are going to be able to get out there, interact with girls, and be a little bit more straightforward with your intentions.
You will be able to take more risks because you are not going to have that fear of rejection any more. Ultimately, it is going to increase your numbers dramatically. The more girls you meet, the more likely you are to find that special girl that will become your girlfriend.
Some great things to remember when learning how to get comfortable with rejection is to, first, not take rejection personally. It is not against you. It is against the way you either approached her, the way she is feeling, or the situation she is in.
More often than not, it is not going to be directly with you. So, just remember that it is not an insult to your own personality. It is just the way that she is or perhaps maybe the way you approached it.
We are not perfect people, and rejection is something that everyone faces in life – finding a date relies on you accepting this. We are imperfect beings. We are going to make mistakes. We are going to muck up here and there, it is normal, and it is acceptable to do that. So, release perfection and just allow yourself to make mistakes, but learn from those mistakes.
See everything as an opportunity to learn…
If she rejects you in a bar or a club, think about where it went wrong. Maybe your approach was weak. Maybe your body language was not right. Maybe you said the wrong things or maybe you were dressed in the wrong way. Look at it as a way that you can grow and learn from.
A good way that you can dramatically increase your learning curve is by finding a coach or having a good friend or wingman that can observe you and the way you interact with women.
It is hard for us to understand where we go wrong personally. If you have someone else there with you observing what you are doing, they can give you some valuable feedback that can help you grow and learn for the future.
Adopt a persistent attitude…
You must want to carry on. So – if you get rejected, you stand back up and you keep going. That is the secret to a lot of highly successful people: being more persistent, getting up, not taking things personally, and keep plowing through.
The more you wallow in your self-pity, get annoyed, get angry, and give up, the less likely that you are going to find a girlfriend and have girls in your life.