Are you scared to meet girls?
You probably don’t even realize you are scared… you might just be giving yourself excuses like, “I won’t approach her, because she might have a boyfriend.”
Whenever you go out there and you put yourself on the line to approach women that you don’t really know, you’re always going to run the risk that perhaps she has a boyfriend, or she isn’t interested in you.
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If she is going to bring up that she has a boyfriend or if she’s going to walk away from you, then you’re probably actually doing the right things.
You’re out there and she’s either scared that she might fall for you, or she might see that you have feelings for her. That’s a good thing, because when you’re with a girl, you don’t want to just come across as a friendly guy. If you’re really interested in her, you want to display that interest, whether it’s from your body language, your actions, your touch, or verbally.
It’s very important, because you want to actually show her that you’re a guy that sees something he likes and goes out there and gets it. If you’re trying to get a girl, then when she mentions that she has a boyfriend, that’s probably not a bad thing. This helps you too, because you realize that she’s not the right one for you. You can quickly move on and stop wasting your time.
Women are everywhere.
Don’t worry about “where to find girls.” When you walk onto a busy street, there are girls everywhere, right? We sometimes make excuses, and I’m even guilty of this. I walk into a place and there might be five attractive girls, which I don’t have the balls to go and approach. I will just diss the place straight away, because I’m too scared to go and approach them. I start making excuses and start rationalizing.
To be successful with meeting girls, you must be honest with yourself.
There are girls everywhere. If you go to a restaurant, there are girls. If you go to a café, there are girls. They’re on your street, they’re at your workplace, they’re at your bars, and they’re at your clubs.
The problem is… a lot of guys don’t have the balls to actually go up there and talk to those girls.
It’s about being real to yourself and really just pushing yourself. If you’re struggling with that, maybe it might be a good idea to find a friend or someone in a very similar situation that can help you? You can both push each other and really work with each other to push yourselves out of your comfort zones and meet more women.
Get a partner to push you.
You can do both. You can both sit there and talk about the goals that you have in your life, the things you want to achieve, the women you want to see, and talk about how you can both help each other get to those goals.
It might be, if you see a girl that you like and she has a friend there, then your friend can be entertaining that friend while you chat to the girl that you like. It can be like a wingman situation.
There might be a point where you really see a girl that you’d like, but you’re not taking action because you’re too scared. You’re in a ball of fear, and that friend can give you that little bit of a push that helps you progress forward and go up to that girl and start talking to her. You’re both working with each other to achieve a similar goal in the end, and to have more women in your life.
Do you have questions about meeting girls? Ask yours in the comments below and I’ll answer each one personally.
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