It looks like you’re falling for a girl, but are you really in love? How can you be sure that it’s more than a one-time thing?
You’re probably here because you’re crushing on someone, but you’re not sure whether it’s true love or not. In this article, I’m going to go over my own personal experiences with love, and what I think sets it apart from just finding a girl to be attractive.
Love is a tricky thing to identify, especially if it's something you're feeling for the first time. It can be difficult to distinguish between regular feelings of attraction, and the real thing.
She overtakes your mind
When I knew I was in love, one of the things that was different was that the girl was always on my mind. I couldn’t stop thinking about her. She just took over my mind completely, and I felt overwhelming emotions towards her. I never felt that before with any other girl I was with. She was certainly different.
She also felt she was the missing part of my life. When I was around her, I just felt like a more complete human being.
No need for masks
Another sign that made me realize I was in love was when I no longer felt like I had to be someone else. I didn’t have to put on a mask and act like a different person just to impress her.
She accepted me for who I was, and that let me feel really comfortable around her.
We shared a really great connection with each other. I have to repeat again that these signs were very different from any other experience I had with girls before. There was no awkwardness, and we were completely comfortable with each other. I just knew this particular person was different.
Other women seem to stop being attractive!
This one really surprised me, since I didn’t think it was possible, but I started to lose interest in other women! Generally, even when I’m dating a girl, I’d still look around at other girls, and I’d have no qualms with going out and meeting new women.
But when I was with my particular love interest at the time, I was no longer interested in other women. All my interest was focused on one girl, and nothing else really mattered to me anymore when it came to picking up other women.
I even put a lot of my other priorities in life on the back burner, such as my career, and various hobbies I liked. I mean, I was so excited that I just wanted to spend every waking minute with the woman I loved. Whenever I got a chance to see her, or when I received a text message from her, I just felt very excited about it. It was like I had met my soulmate.
She becomes a part of your future
The final piece of the puzzle to how you know you’re in love? I started to visualize, in my mind, a future with that person. I could envisage future holidays, going hiking together, cuddling up on a couch and watching T.V. Whatever it was that I did, I could imagine doing that activity with her. More than that, I couldn’t imagine doing it without her.
I had never had that before with a girl. With other girls I could only think of the now, and the future didn’t really matter to me.
So whether you’re feeling this way about a girl you already know, or whether you’re desperately wanting to find someone special with who you can build that connection, you need to learn a few tricks of the trade, so to speak.
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