One week ago, naked pictures of Scarlett Johansson hit the internet, after an anonymous hacker broke into her cell phone. And while this was probably an embarrassing experience for her… I believe she has just helped save the world.
If you haven’t seen her leaked photos yet, you can follow this link to see them for yourself. (But I’ve got to warn you, they’re NSFW). Scarlett Johansson is one of my favorite actresses – she is so damn sexy!! And if you’ve seen these, you know they’re not “too lewd” or “too revealing” or “too sexual”… or “too” anything. They’re just sexy pictures you take for your partner, because you feel like flirting.
So how can average, nude photos like these help save the world?
Well, there’s no denying Scarlett Johansson is a gorgeous woman. Even without make up, she’s got beautiful features, and her “image” in Hollywood has always been pure: She’s played the temptress a few times, however she’s mostly the love interest. Or the powerful woman. Or any other role than, “I’m the woman they cast because I take my clothes off at the drop of a hat.”
How Scarlett Johansson’s Leaked Photos May Save The World…
She’s talented. Strong willed. And one of the last women you think you’d have a shot with, if you met her on the street. But these pictures reveal a side of her that every woman has. Scarlett Johansson isn’t that much different from every other woman… Even the most powerful, beautiful women. And it’s a side most men will never see or bring out – I love these photos because they demonstrate so clearly and simply that every woman loves sex and her own sexuality just as much as every man.
It’s simply a different sexuality than ours. So it confuses us, and we rarely ever see the pure, sexual side of women, even women with whom we’re intimate. Even Scarlett Johansson has a wide side she hides from everyone.
Here, let me demonstrate this point with a story:
Not too long ago, I couldn’t get a date to save my life. So my sexual experience with women was VERY limited…
However, as the years went by, I gained more and more experience. (Through experimentation and developing the thoughts and techniques I share with you, in this blog.) As I had experiences with more and more women, I discovered they all had a sexual side of them I’d catch glimpses of – but never the whole thing. For example, my girlfriend would come home drunk after being out with her friends, and the sex would be wilder and better than ever before. But when I tried to recreate this experience sober, she would be too shy and just “bottle up.”
It so happened that at the time, my friend Dan Rose was writing his book on sexual techniques. So I tried a few new moves on my girlfriend, and one night, I tried a move that opened the flood gates; overnight, our sex was more passionate. She often initiated sex with me, and it seemed like she was horny ALL THE TIME! She would send me naughty texts from work… spoil me with pictures just like the one Scarlett Johansson leaked to the world… and she was just a happier girlfriend, all around.
The technique I tried wasn’t much of a technique at all…
I simply was more dominant with her in bed. For example, I told her how naughty she was for wanting sex with me. I told her exactly what I wanted her to do, and when I wanted her to come. And this simple shift from being a man in bed to being “the man” in bed was exactly what she needed to be “the woman” in bed. I’ve noticed this is true with all women: The key to unlocking a woman’s secret, hypersexual side is as simple as being strong and dominant with her, in and out of bed. The stronger, more dominant of a man you are, the weaker and more sexual she allows herself to be around you.
NOW – Don’t think of strong as abusive, just as shouldn’t think of weak as being a pushover.
Instead, think of your strength and her “weakness” like this: She’s a smaller, more delicate human being than you are. She’s physically weaker. To compensate, she walks around all day with a stronger mental guard on her delicate sexuality. (Because all sexuality is delicate, fragile and easily hurt.) While you can defend yourself with fists, she defends herself with thoughts.
So when you take charge in the bedroom, and let her explore her sexuality with no boundaries, she can drop her protecting thoughts and enjoy her sexuality, the same way you don’t feel the need to defend yourself, physically, when you’re in bed with her. She’ll even take risks like Scarlett Johansson took – saving and sending sexy pictures of herself, so she can make you happy.
Once I discovered all women have this secret, hypersexual side, I looked back on my life and KICKED myself for the years I wasted, just letting sex “happen”, instead of turning her on, myself. I imagine you feel the same way right about now.
But you should know, you can tap into a woman’s secret sexuality OUTSIDE of the bedroom, as well:
If you’ve just met, think like an attractive man, take the mental stance that you ARE an attractive man, and you won’t need her to make decisions for you. Then she can relax, knowing she doesn’t need to think for you, too. This is as simple as saying “Yes” or “No” when you’re asked a question, instead of wavering in between. When you’re making decisions as a group of friends (or even a group of strangers), take an extra second to decide what YOU want, instead of worrying about making other people happy.
On paper, this seems like narcissistic, selfish, asshole behavior. But the truth is: You’re probably too nice and passive, right now. So thinking about your own needs won’t make you act like an asshole… you’ll finally come across like a man who knows what he wants, which is extremely attractive to women.
Because if every man and every woman stuck up for their own sexuality, the world would be a better, happier place…
Try this exercise once every day, for the next seven days: Once per day, remind yourself of this simple thought, “What if I didn’t care what any of these people thought about me? How would I act?” This will help bring out your natural, free, dominant masculinity when you’re around other people.
And if you’re intimate with a woman, try this thought, “What could she do, right now, that would turn me on more than anything else?” Then help her understand what you want her to do, and how it would make you feel.
Focusing on your sexuality may seem selfish, but in reality it leads to hotter, better sex, more often, because it gives your woman permission to focus on her sexuality, as well. (Just make sure you support her, when she finally opens up.)
So now, before I sign off, I’ve gotten kind of curious: What one experience in YOUR life has shown you a woman’s true sexuality? Leave me a story in the comments, below. (I have to approve them manually because of all the spam bots – but I never turn away any real, human comments. So you’re welcome to say anything you wish!)
PS. If you’re interested in becoming a more dominant man, you should know: I taught a workshop on being more dominant for five whole years. Until last year, in fact, when I closed it to focus on a brand new workshop, which hasn’t been announced yet.
This means, sadly, you can never take this course. But you CAN have the manual we used for just $3.59 (more than 99% off what the workshop cost.) This manual lets you “follow along” with the workshop – practicing the same exercises we used to be more dominant. And you can use this refresher course, whenever you want.
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