Follow our advice, approach people, don’t worry, and just make small talk. This will bring you out of your shell.
Spend time talking to 5 to 10 people (who you don't care what happens with) before you talk to that hottie sitting next to you
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For anyone with an introverted personality who is wondering what are some good tips to attract women, get out of their own head, and get past themselves, we’ve got some tips for you. If you are wondering if it is possible to get a girl or approaching women when you have an introverted personality or if there is any hope for me, then you’ve come to the right place.
I think that the key for introverted people is to spend time warming up.
Don’t just go out there at lunch time at work and expect to run across a woman and talk to the most beautiful woman you’ve ever seen. Realize that for you to get out of your head and express yourself, you may need to make small talk with five to ten people first. These don’t have to be the people you see yourself hanging out with or settling down with. These are just random people who will help to grease your gears on your way to getting a girl or approaching a woman.
The more often you talk to other people, the easier it will become for you.
If you are wondering if it is a good idea to approach other people who are introverted, or whether you should go toward the other end of the spectrum and try to jar yourself out of your introverted personality and get a girl, then read on. The main problem I see with introverted people is that they’re too tough on themselves. They put too much pressure on themselves and there’s too much expectation. Then they end up not giving themselves enough freedom.
Ultimately, you can talk to anyone.
Talking to anyone is going to be better than talking to no one. If you want to get good with women, by approaching them and being able to express yourself the way you want, for most introverted people, it’s going to be a lifestyle shift. They have to get in the habit of making sure that socializing and talking to new people daily is a priority.
If you’ve broken through your inhibitions and made a date with a girl, you may wonder what’s a good first date for somebody who’s introverted.
Should you take her to the movies so you don’t have to talk, or should you take her to dinner and make it a point to talk? I would probably do something not like dinner or the movies. Something where you’re walking — something active or where there’s something that’s capturing the attention of both of you. Say you go shopping with her. There are a lot of clothes you can try on and different stores you can go into, but it also provides a lot of conversation material that will naturally occur during the course of the date.
The same happens when you decide to go to a music festival or check out an art gallery or go to the gym.
These activities are great, because they put a lot less pressure on you to be interesting, as there is already a lot of stuff to talk about. I like to make things as easy as possible on a date. The more subject matter there is around me, the easier I find it to just chat and walk and look. Keeping these considerations in mind should help an introverted personality get a girl or approach a woman, and help keep them occupied once they have one.
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