It starts before the bedroom – here’s a step-by-step on how you can drive her crazy with desire–
5 simple tips you can use to turn any woman on, after just one date
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Men continually think about ways to arouse a woman.
I once heard that men think about sex every 15 minutes of their life. So, of course they are also thinking about different ways on how to arouse a woman. Here is a short, but sweet definitive guide on ways that I have come upon to accomplish the goal of arousal.
1. Men and Women Do Not Get Aroused in The Same Way:
Women become aroused when their senses are stimulated. Arousal is more than simply seeing an attractive man. Women need to feel passion and romance. They need to be sensuously touched and caressed, and they also need time.
Women generally need more time for touching and kissing to become aroused then men do.
The simple act of flirting goes a long way with women. Men often become aroused simply by sight alone; they can watch a gorgeous woman walk across the room and they are turned on. The same does not hold true for women. Women need the full experience of their senses being stimulated for arousal to happen. Simply put, use foreplay. Woman can’t just jump into the act. She must be enticed.
2. Remember That No Two Women Are The Same:
It’s not just an end all be all type of situation for women. What works for one woman may not work for another. The simplest way to find out what arouses a woman is to ask her. Ask what she likes and dislikes. In addition, you should also pay strict attention to how she reacts to your advances and efforts throughout your time together. Watch for non-verbal cues and body language. Watch and you will learn many things than if you did not pay attention and only sought what you desired.
You will get nowhere with that attitude.
3. Create the Right Atmosphere:
Women are visual creatures. They need the right atmosphere and ambiance to become aroused. They need an environment that is conducive to relaxation, feeling comfortable, feeling safe, and desired. This is especially true if they have had a stressful day at work or school, or had issues with family or friends. Even if they are just tired, women react differently to stresses in their lives.
4. Arousal Takes Time, Don’t Rush It:
Taking a woman from a non-arousal to an arousal state, and then to orgasm is like sculpting a masterpiece, it takes time and effort by both the woman and the man. Don’t advance to quickly, you must start with flirting and slowly build up to touching and kissing. Trying to jump her bones to0 quickly will get you nowhere fast.
If you make it to the bedroom, make sure that you know what the clitoris is and where to find it.
Massaging the clitoris is almost always necessary to get a woman fully aroused, wet, and ready for intercourse. However, different woman have different preferences for how they like to be touched. It might take a bit of time to find the right technique. Good communication is essential to all things in life, especially the act of sex. Be sure to ask her how she likes to be touched! Talking can save you a lot of time and effort. You will score major brownie points by showing that you care how she feels.
5. Understand Female Orgasm:
Women have to learn how to orgasm. In many ways, a female orgasm can be more difficult to achieve than a male orgasm. Just because a woman does not orgasm does not mean that you did not satisfy her. You must always remember this, listen to what I am saying and take heed. If she is having a particularly stressful day, that might be enough to make an orgasm difficult. Women many times just like the simple act of touching and feeling you inside of her.
Women also have hormonal changes throughout the month. No joke, there are jokes everywhere about PMS. These changes can affect their level of arousal. This means that at certain times of the month, she may more easily (or less easily) be aroused. Honest communication between the two of you is essential. It often clears up unnecessary concerns about performance and helps to quickly improve the quality of the sex that you have.
To sum it up, arousal for men and women is different.
It always has, and it always will be. Make the effort to please her by asking her what she likes. Taking your time to communicate will improve her arousal and your chances for having great sex.
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