Learning how to ask girls out doesn’t have to be boring…
Questions about asking girls out? Write your comments, thoughts, or experiences below and I’ll answer each one personally.
Let’s say you see that same hot girl again…
It’s one of those situations, where you see the girl that you are smitten with and there is something about her that makes you want to ask her out. But you really don’t know her at all. How can you handle the situation without turning her off?
You want to be open and upfront with her, even if it’s the first time you are speaking to her. There is a reason you find her intriguing, so go for it.
I think every time you ask a girl out you have still got to have a reason for asking her out.
Importantly you need to present a reason to her. So if it is the girl that you have seen on the street and there is something that you like about her. Don’t be afraid to go up and be open and direct with her by letting her know what it is you appreciate about her. If it is coming from a genuine place, it is going to be really powerful to receive on her behalf.
A girl is usually flattered by a guy’s genuine interest and it always makes her feel good to know somebody has found her attractive enough to approach.
Then just say something simple, even if it’s just asking her what she is up to. I think a lot of guys feel like in order to get a girl’s number and for that number to be real and successful when he calls, that they need to log X amount of time and interaction. This is not actually true. A lot of the time the really quick approaches that we do, are far more powerful. If the guy was to get the girl’s number after say, only 30 seconds of talking, or if he was to get her on an instant date, where they take the girl for coffee after just 30 seconds of talking. That in itself is going to be far more powerful, than if you spend talking to her for 10 minutes.
The reason being every girl has a perception of what her ideal man is… so when they meet someone who comes up and shows confidence and shows a little bit of moxy and bravo, then they instantly start thinking is this my ideal guy? Is this the kind of guy I’ve been waiting for? Suddenly they start projecting a whole bunch of positive qualities to fill the gaps that they don’t necessarily know.
From that perspective I think it can be really powerful and it can be something as simple as “Sorry to stop you, you look like you are incredibly busy, but you just have this incredibly beautiful energy about you and I’m not sure what it is. But I feel like there’s a bit of a connection there, and something I would really like to explore. I’d love to get your number and maybe give you a call some time and just see if there is a connection there.”
Nothing else has to be said, and most of the time the girl is going to give you that number just on your confidence alone.
Seal the deal with this closing conversation…
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