You’re either scared senseless or you’ve struck out too many times. Maybe it’s time to just give up? STOP. Because there are secrets to getting a high school girl to say yes when you ask her out (IF you’re in high school or maybe a LITTLE younger!)
But you’ll never guess what it is! It depends on a few things…
I think it depends who is asking the high school girl out.
Hopefully we are not dealing with a teacher or the dad of one of her friends. That is not an appropriate situation. It is also not a legal situation. If it’s a high school student of a similar age asking out a high school girl, I think that particular situation is a lot easier and in keeping with society’s standards of acceptable behavior.
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I think sometimes in high school, going direct to the point and demonstrating confidence can be one of the most powerful tools that guy can use.
Often in high school, it has less to do with whether the girl is attracted to you and more to do with you showing the confidence to ask her out by putting your balls on the line, so to speak.
In a high school situation, I think leading is far more important.
Rather than saying in a questioning tone to a girl, “Would you like to go out on a date with me?” I think talking in statements will be far more powerful. “I think you are really sexy. I’ve been thinking about you for a long time. I want to take you out on a date.”
At the end of the day, if the girl doesn’t want to go out on a date with you, she is going to let you know, anyway. She will make that clear. She doesn’t want to go out on a date with you. However, if she is half and half and you ask a question like, “Would you like to go out with me?” because of the pressure that situation creates, if you’ve given her an out by framing this in a question mode, she is more likely to take that out and not respond positively.
If you leave the interaction saying, “I really like you. I would like to go out with you sometime. I’m thinking this Friday 8:30,” that is a good way to get results.
If you feel the need to soften your approach by tying a question on the end of it, what you might say instead of, “Would you like to go out on a date with me?” is, “I’m thinking you and me on Friday. Would you prefer to go to the movies or would you rather go to an ice skating rink?”
This assumes she is going to say yes, so the question becomes where she would rather go, not whether she would like to go at all. I think the other thing that is important when asking high school girls out is, once you have a little bit of success, that tends to create a snowball effect.
When you have success with one girl, suddenly you get seen as someone who is a great candidate for dating.
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