Many guys in high school and college just don’t have the knowledge or experience in dating, and need advice on how to attract girls.
They find themselves not having much luck when it comes to their pick up, and start feeling insecure and start wondering what the problem is. I am going to offer a few tips on to attract girls to you.
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Because you are new to the dating scene, you may find it difficult to keep you attention focused, because you still tend to have a short attention span. Here are a few things you can do attract a girls attention and keep it.
Number one is to have a lot of things going on in your life.
Start focusing on building your lifestyle. Outside of school, have a couple of activities that you have an interest in and participate in regularly. It helps to always have your finger in different areas, whether it’s throwing an party, or have friends who are throwing parties. This is a great way to meet girls, and learn to mingle with them.
There’s always a massive list of things you can invite different people to. It doesn’t matter which type of girl, whether she’s into art, whether she’s into music, or whether she’s into pottery. Whatever she’s into, get something going on in those areas of life that interest girls.
Find out about what’s going on in your community and start getting involved in it somehow, whether it’s through friends of the people who are putting it on, or just getting out there yourself and throwing yourself into the situation. Make life more interesting, and you’ll have better success in attracting girls towards you.
Number two is to get up-to-date with what girls are into.
Talk to lots of girls and find out what the latest craze is. Know their lingo, and take the time to learn about girls, about their bodies, and what makes them tick. When I’m talking to a girl and she has a look on her face or feeling a bit out of sorts, I’m pretty sure she is having her period. Girls aren’t especially nice when they are on their period. It’s a fact of life, so start getting used to it now.
Talking to girls about their menstruation cycle makes a lot of girls uncomfortable, but if you can learn to be comfortable with talking about it with at least some basic knowledge, you can empathize with them. Things like that are going to set you apart from other guys, and that’s how you get a girl to like you.
Number three is to just be genuinely interested in the girls.
A lot of what might be going on when you’re talking to girls and they seem to be getting bored is that you’re doing a lot of talking. Learn to turn that ratio around and really allow the girls to express themselves, and just be genuinely interested in whatever it is they want to talk about. As you probably know by now, girls DO like to talk, so let them take the lead and you will learn a lot about how they think.
It will be really refreshing for them to be able to talk to a guy whose not focused entirely on himself, or what he’s up to the whole time. Be really interested in what she has to say. It will help your results incredibly, and also stop them from being so bored when you’re talking to them. They will also be wondering what is different about you, and you will have their interest because you seem different then the other guys they know.
What attracts girls is not really rocket science. Just follow the advice I have given you, and you will do just find. They will see how different you are from the other guys they know, and will want to learn what makes you tick. Instant attraction will happen without much effort or fear on your part.
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