You hear it every day, “Get more confidence. Get more women.”
By now you are wondering, “What is confidence anyway? And how do I really get some?”
Read on for some simple tips that worked for me personally and for countless clients…
***And when you are finished reading… please take a few seconds and share one of your frustrations with attracting women. I’d like to help and will try to answer each comment personally.
Confidence is the belief that you have in yourself and your abilities. It is a positive expectation of outcomes. So if you want to attract women with confidence then you need to believe that you will be able to pick up a girl who you are interested in.
This may sound obvious, but the guys who want to be good with girls very often just lack the confidence to do so. They think that techniques and tactics are the key to being more successful with women. But all of the dating strategies in the world won’t help you if you lack the confidence to use them properly. And simply being confident can often be much more effective on its own that resorting to cheesy pick-up lines or other gimmicks.
Believing in yourself is the key to being successful at anything – dating included. So I want to share some simple, but powerful, exercises which you can use to build your confidence and attract more women.
Remind yourself of your good qualities…
Many people are distracted by what they don’t have, or what they aren’t good at, and forget that they have many good qualities. If you want to be more confident, then you need to remind yourself of the many things that you are good at. How can you expect to believe in yourself if all you ever see and think about are the qualities which you feel you lack?
Start reminding yourself about your good qualities right now! Grab a notepad or some scrap paper, get out of your home, and go somewhere peaceful where you can relax – a park or some other natural environment is ideal. Sit there quietly and clear your head. Think about all of the things which you have achieved in the past – it doesn’t matter how small or trivial they may seem.
Now write down all of the qualities which you have and which were an important part of your past success. It doesn’t matter if some of these abilities seem obvious. Don’t take any of them for granted.
Look inside for confidence…
Many guys who want to better with women find that turning to outside resources for help doesn’t always build confidence. They try to be confident by finding ideas around them, but that is not what confidence is. Being confident means that you believe in yourself. So I want you to spend some time each day looking for answers within yourself.
For example, if you want to meet an attractive girl this week, then start brainstorming as many ideas and strategies that you can think of instead of relying on the internet or other external resources for information. Organise everything you can think of into a list and start putting those ideas into action. That is how to attract women using confidence.
So let’s recap: confidence is the ability to find ideas within yourself and then acting on them because you believe that you can do it. You can attract women with confidence by looking inside for your own answers and giving them a shot instead of relying on outside resources.
***Remember: Please share one of your frustrations with attracting women in the comments below. I’d like to help you and will try to answer your comment personally.
3 questions to get what you want from her…
Now that you know how to attract her by exuding more confidence, you’re more than likely ready to discover how to never be stuck without the exact right words to say to her again. Just ask these three questions, sprinkle in some charm, and you’ll be able to quickly identify the precise words to say so she’ll feel that instant connection, and tell you exactly what you want to hear.
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