Dear Vin, I have this problem with women that I’m really attracted to — they just kind of scare me. I’m pretty good with women when I’m just friends with them, but I start panicking when I see a really hot girl, even when I’m just walking by in public or especially at a club.
I have a lot of money, so I recently went out and bought a really nice car to try to attract women, but it hasn’t helped me at all! One, they don’t seem to care; and two, I’m still frightened around them. What are some ways I can get over this and really treat these hot women just like normal women and be able to attract them?
It’s a real shame that you had to find out the hard way that, after all, such an approach just doesn’t work. What I would suggest to guys, is rather than spending fifty to a hundred grand on a nice car, they would be much better off taking a small portion of that money and investing it into some coaching. That way they’re going to get some instant results, and they’re going to get lasting results. Cars will grow old, and they’ll grow rusty, but once you develop the skills to become better with women, they’ll be there for life.
When we’re talking about really hot women, what I want you to do is try to delve a little bit deeper. There are all sorts of hot women. There’s a complete abundance of beautiful and intelligent women out there, but try to get a better feel for the exact qualities that you’re looking for. From a physical perspective; what color hair she has, what type of skin does she have, what body type does she have?
From a personality perspective; is she fun and bubbly, is she really deep, is she someone who talks a lot, or is she someone who listens a lot? Get a real clear picture in your head of the exact qualities that you’re looking for, and then start to think of the places that these types of women hang out at.
I think that’s a really big mistake that guys often make — looking in the wrong place.
I’ll bring up an analogy that I learned really early on in my days. A guy walks past someone and he sees him looking on the ground, and he asks him, “What are you doing?” The guy says, “Well, I lost some money so I’m looking for it.” He goes “Oh that’s great, I’ll give you a hand.” So they both start looking all over the ground, and looking under the rocks to see if they can find it.
Someone else walks up and asks the same question. They say they lost some money and they continue to look. A third guy walks up and asks them what they’re doing and they say they lost some money and they’re looking for it. He asks them, “Well where did you lose it?” The guy says, “I lost it over there.” So he replies, “Then why are you looking here?” And the guy says, “Because the light’s better.”
The problem is most guys are looking for girls in the wrong places. They’re looking for girls in places that are convenient and easy for them, but if they just had some creative thought about where these girls really were, then they would be a lot more successful with being able to date them.
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