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For any guys still wondering how to be boyfriend material and how to get women to love you, you need to show the real you!
Maybe you’ve found a girl, you like each other, and it’s going okay… But how do you take that next step to get women to love the real you? This is a great question and the answer is right below.
There are a lot of guys out there who can pick up girls, but aren’t necessarily boyfriend material.
You need to be able to get women to love the real you and become boyfriend material, if you are going to progress through life in a natural pattern. I want to give you a few insights into how to get women to love what you have to offer. Many women out there are looking for guys in whom they see more potential, or a longer-term opportunity. Their clocks are ticking and they know it, but they don’t want to settle for anyone who appears flaky or insincere.
Here are the ways you can become boyfriend material:
1. Make her proud.
The most important thing in this scenario is that she wants to feel proud, when she’s introducing you to her family and friends. If you talk in a really bad way, your appearance sucks, or you embarrass her even a little bit, she’s not going to want to introduce you to her friends and family. This is going to put a major limit on how serious your relationship gets. Girls put so much value on their friends and family, that when she’s dating you, she’s thinking about how they’re going to see and perceive you. It’s really important that you keep this in mind and start to be good with people, so when she meets you and then introduces you to her friends, you’re social, friendly, and can hold a conversation. Look people in the eye, speak clearly, and shake hands with a firm grip. Dress well, watch your table manners, and by all means make sure you’ve showered before you go out.
2. Make her (and others) feel good.
Do you have the social ability to make people feel good about themselves? That is a good skill to cultivate. Maybe you give her friends or family compliments, or you’re charming. Look around to see if there’s some small chore you could do to make yourself useful. Just like at a job interview, you are trying to demonstrate how invaluable you would be in this relationship. Make sure you don’t embarrass her in any way about the way you express or hold yourself. Have some interesting stories at the ready to tell a little about your own beginnings. Maybe not so much interesting, as illustrative of the kind of upbringing you’ve had. She doesn’t usually want to introduce someone to her friends and family who’s unemployed, has a dead end job, is overweight, or is a mommy’s boy — when mom does everything for you. Before you go looking for a long-time girlfriend, you need to get your ducks all in a row.
3. Be a real man.
The process to get women to love you is to invest in yourself and improve your life, when it comes right down to it…She wants to introduce her friends and family to a guy who’s masculine, independent, can stand on his own feet, has some ambitious career ideas, can look after himself, and can dress well. Fit in with all of those, and you are definitely boyfriend material and will easily get women to love the real you. I’m starting to love you, myself! (Just kidding.)
You want to be able to hold a conversation, make her want to introduce you to her friends, be proud of you, and really want to show you off. You don’t want her to have to hide you in any way. If you’re starting to date a girl and for some reason she’s introducing you to her friends and family, that’s a bit of a warning sign (be it a good or bad sign is up to you). It’s important that you figure out why that is, not only because of this particular relationship, but also in the future, because usually this is something where most girls think in a similar way. If you want to be loved for yourself, then be yourself, which by now if you’ve done all I’ve mentioned will be easy — because you are such a lovable guy.
What do you find challenging about trying to be boyfriend material? Please comment in the box below.
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