Is your life “boring”? Do you crave a more interesting life so that you can attract more interesting women?
You’re not alone…
Many men get bored with the grind of their daily routine. Now you can discover how to liven up your life and transform into a more interesting person by implementing tips from the article below:
Add more interest to your life, and you'll find interesting and attractive women along the way!
Following is just a sample of the many letters I receive on this topic, from guys who desire to become a more interesting person and lead a life of success. Read on and see if you find yourself in the same situation.
If you have been in this situation, and found ways to become a more interesting person, I would love to hear your thoughts. If you would leave a comment in the box below, perhaps guys in the same situation could learn some pointers from people who have been successful in becoming a more interesting person.
Dear Vin,
I think whenever I’m out with my friends I’m the one that no one pays attention to. Everyone is having conversations, getting along, and being engaging but it seems like whenever I’m talking people are just not interested.
I don’t know if it’s something conversationally wrong with what I am doing but I’m wondering, just how does one become more interesting. I find it really hard to keep the attention of people and especially women.
Korry from Pittsburgh
From my experience, there are two components to becoming more interesting.
One side of the coin is to work on developing a more vibrant lifestyle and add more exciting activities. This will give you more things to talk about. The other side of the coin is to be able to express yourself better. Both of these ideas will make you a more interesting person, get you out of the shadows and you will get noticed. After all, this is what you’re after, right?
The challenge guys face is that when they’re in a particular social circle, there’s almost a social hierarchy that exists within that social circle. Unfortunately, as you start to work on becoming more attractive and potentially changing your position on that social hierarchy, there’s the potential that our friends may not fully support us in these endeavors. You’re old friends might start to feel threatened.
From that perspective, one of the keys that I found when I was working on becoming better with women was to distance myself a fraction from my social circle.
Go out and work on finding new friends who have similar goals. Also, make sure that the friends that you do keep in your life are the friends that are supportive of you. Once you do become a little bit more interesting, you’ll be able to integrate yourself back into the social circle and feel more natural because you are more congruent with the changes.
In terms of how to make that step on how to be an interesting person, there are three activities that I think will add to your success.
Activity #1- Get involved in an improvisation class.
This is great activity because it gets you thinking on your feet, it takes you out of your comfort zone, and it makes you more creative. That’s something, that as men, we generally struggle with.
Activity #2- Take any kind of a dance class.
Dancing, other than helping you become better on the dance floor, which is a huge advantage, has a number of other characteristics that are important. One of the dancing classes that I enrolled in was salsa dancing.
A big benefit of doing salsa dancing is you become better at leading. Being able to lead people is massively important in your quest to become more interesting and more compelling. It also gets you comfortable with touch and with rhythm.
Activity #3- Learn anything you can about personal development.
The idea of consciously working on improving your life and investing in your life, whether it is a personal development program like the ones that we have on our website, or whether it is one that’s more focused around girls, will greatly build your self-confidence.
One of the products I would recommend is Attraction Code, which is great for developing your inner game and offers a wealth of information on developing interest in your life.
Anytime you can demonstrate the willingness to work hard on becoming a better person, you will find yourself compelling to the people that you talk to. You will capture their attention. Make your life more interesting, and you will naturally become more interesting to others. People, and especially women, will flock around to be near you.
Activity #4- Find out what women think is interesting about you.
Now this might be the easiest activity you’ve ever attempted. Go check out this video to see what I mean. It’s so simple a kindergartner could master this technique in a night. But you aren’t a kindergartner, your a man, so it might just take you minutes. Find out what every woman finds interesting by clicking here: Instant Access Pass to FREE Video (guaranteed to get you more attention from hot girls)
