Although becoming popular isn’t something that can happen overnight, there are easy ways in which you can get popular in your friendship group. Gaining popularity does take time.
I look at being popular now like ranking better on Google. There are a lot of different things you can do to your website to get it to rank higher, but there is a crucial process of time. You might start at the 20th possible result, and as you improve, your website eventually climb to number one – but not in an instant.
A similar thing happens when you want to become more popular. I want to give you three areas to focus on. These three areas are going to play a big part in becoming popular. They will give you the best results for your time, energy, and money.
Embrace the element of surprise…
Surprise people with how cool you are. If you have ever watched the show Beauty and the Geek, you can see what is possible when someone has a personal transformation. So, what you want to do is shock people. You could fall out of contact with particular friends for a couple of months, and in that couple of months get a personal trainer and a six pack, change the way you dress, or take up an interesting hobby like becoming a DJ. Immediately you will become cooler.
Sometimes popularity can be increased all of a sudden. It is worth looking at areas in which you are uncool. This is something I did a few years ago, and it was very clear to me that I was turning women off by my lack of culture. Just knowing what was fashionable (before I had no clue) gave me an instant boost of coolness. This dramatically increased my general popularity – people just started looking at me differently.
Develop your social skills…
Usually, a guy is unpopular because he is making social mistakes that he is not even aware of. To help you go back to basics, start reading books on social skills and try to figure out what you are doing wrong.
I know a guy who was at the bottom of the ladder in our social group. He was constantly making the mistake of being a doormat for everyone else. He would be the butt of jokes, run errands for people and do things that reflected on him badly. He also had a terribly bad fashion sense, but the worst thing for him was that he had no idea of what he was doing wrong.
Have more luck with the ladies…
Usually, the most popular social guy is the guy who is best with women. He can talk to them, date them, and ultimately have sex with them. Make this guy you – nothing is going to help your popularity as much as this. Other guys are going to respect you and want to hang out with you, and women are going to find you attractive.
Becoming more socially confident and bettering yourself is the key to becoming the most popular guy around. When you reach the top of the ladder, try to remember what it was like to be at the bottom; embrace your kindness and empathy to avoid becoming a bully.
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