Want to know how to chat with random strangers? Read on and you’ll find out how this is a key way to finding a woman.
Chatting with strangers improves your social life…
One of the easiest ways to improve your networking ability and invigorate your social life is to develop the ability to talk to strangers. Building connections in your life, meeting new friends, and developing the ability to entertain and attract girls makes your life so much better and helps improve your quality of life.
The more people in your life, the better your quality of life is going to be; the better your quality of life is going to be, the longer and happier you are going to live. So, let’s not discount how important it is to be able to chat with random strangers.
Adjust your mindset…
The first essential thing for you to adjust, to be able to start chatting with strangers, is your mindset. If you are naturally a shy person and, perhaps, a little introverted, then you need to invest a fair bit of time in the skill of talking around strangers. But, let me tell you, it’s going to be worth it when you get it right. It’s going to dramatically change your life.
By changing your mindset, you can make finding a date and getting the girl something you are motivated to do.
But how do you adjust a mindset?
Write down the kind of person that you want to be. The sort of person you want to see yourself become, the people that you want in your life, and think about how you can achieve that by improving your social skills.
The biggest deterrent to becoming more sociable is the fear of rejection and people rejecting you for who you are.
Learn to not take things personally…
At least 95% of the time, when a person reacts negatively to you, it has absolutely nothing to do with you personally. Most likely they are having a bad day or you caught them at the wrong moment.
Maybe people have harassed them before and now they assume you have bad intentions, or maybe they are just not that cool and you wouldn’t gain much from knowing them anyway. So, it’s important that you just frame it as nothing against you personally.
Some simple steps to help you chat to women and strangers…
A couple of little steps that you can take to pick up your social skills and talk to random strangers easily is to practice smiling at people. If you are going for a walk to your train station or you are walking into a club or a venue, all it takes is to just smile at people, nod your head, and say hello.
The second step is to find something to comment on…
So, if you are in a social situation, find something in the room or in life that you can comment on. Start to be more observant with your surroundings.
For instance, if there is something happening in the room that you can draw attention to, then you know go up to them and say, “Hey guys, did you notice blah, blah, blah,” and get into conversation mode. Just be more observational and more aware of what’s happening around you.
Perhaps use humor to get over the nerves and break the ice with people. Make a joke about something.
Finally, don’t be afraid to ask questions…
Be curious. Be really curious and intrigued about people. Go up and ask them a question. People love talking about themselves. In fact, most people’s number one topic in life is themselves. So, if you go up and you show interest in someone, then more than likely they are going to want to expand on the topic and talk a little bit more about themselves.