Removing the mystery and relieving the fear so you have a great time with more women…
I’ve always had trouble dating women.
They make me nervous, and I don’t really know what they want. What are the first, perhaps even baby steps, that I need take to date some girls?
If you’re reading this, you’re probably the sort of person who spends a lot of time inside, sitting in front of your computer. The truth is, you aren’t going to date any girls that way.
One of the easiest ways to boost your social life and meet more women is simply to become a “Yes! Man.”
I don’t know if you’ve seen that movie with Jim Carrey, where he basically goes from being the guy who shoots down every opportunity and everything that’s going on in his life; to a guy who, once exposed to the idea of being a “Yes! Man”, starts to basically say yes to life and to every opportunity that presents itself.
If you can start with that kind of attitude, it’s really going to shift you in the right direction.
Being a “Yes! Man” could be really powerful, because it opens you up to new experiences, it adds character and a certain quality to you which can make you more attractive in the long run.
When you start to say yes to all opportunities, you start to be presented with additional opportunities; and you’ll be surprised what that can lead you to. Sun Tzu once said, “Opportunities multiply as they are seized.”
Now, you must realize that dating women doesn’t have to be a big deal.
You can even incorporate it into your life. Again, being a “Yes, Man”, being someone who is exposed to a lot of new ideas and trying new things, gives you a lot of flexibility, in terms of the options that you have to organize a dating situation.
For instance, let’s say you’re already going to art galleries, parties, bowling events, or anything like that on a regular basis. These are all opportunities for you to invite the girl to come along with you. BAM!!! Now you are on a date with a girl.
The great thing about this dating strategy is that it actually adds no additional effort to your life. You’re already going to these events that you enjoy, and now you can share them with a date.
All you have to do now is simply be yourself and invite her to the date; and it also gets her to be exposed to who are. It’s a great way for her to get a better idea of what your life is about. In an indirect way, you’re building a lot of attraction, and you really don’t have to even work for it. It’s all effortless.
That’s some good advice, but one of the problems that I run into when I try this, is that I’m not quite sure how to go about inviting women out on these dates.
What’s a casual, but nonetheless enticing way to bring someone along?
The great thing about having options and having things that you do regularly in your life, is that it can also be a great way for building rapport and introduce these things into your conversation. So, let’s say you’re into art; you might bring that into the conversation, and the girl might show an interest in art too.
This gives you a chance to see what kind of things she is into, and if she’s into art, you can keep the conversation going. Then, as you build more and more of a connection, suggest to her to come and join you because, “I’m actually going to go and check out this street art exhibition, why don’t you come along?” It could just be a really casual thing. Just state it like if you’re inviting a friend, any friend.
How would you do it with a friend? You just invite them. You tell them what it is and you invite them along.
Because of your friendliness, and your awareness of the kind of things that she’s into, there’s really no doubt as to whether she would want to come or not.
Dating women is only as complicated as you make it.
In fact I’ll make it easy, I’m talking one conversation that gets you laid easy. Just 3 innocent questions she’ll be eager to answer – completely unaware they’ll lead to a hot, steamy hook-up. Test it for yourself after watching this video: 3 questions to open her box