Having a sex story to tell around the water cooler after every date – that’s successful dating
If you want to learn how to date successfully, then you have come to the right place.
First, let’s consider what it means to date successfully. Successful dating means that you actually have sex with the women you date. Using this as the benchmark, let me explain how you get there.
Having sex is simply two naked people alone together.
Let’s work backward from this point. If the date is to be successful, you must be alone together. You must touch her, and it needs to be a bit risky. For example, I was watching a video clip about Aston Kutcher, who cheated on his wife Demi Moore. He was having a party in his hotel room with lots of girls. They all ended up naked in the hot tub.
I would consider this successful dating.
If you want to ensure you get alone time, then you need to have a good plan. Here are a few tips to help you have a successful date:
1. Plan in advance
While you may have a date planned in the city, how do you plan to get her alone? Are you going back to your place to spend time alone, or are you going somewhere else? How will you get there? Are you going to take a train, bus, car, or cab? These are questions to consider – before your date – so that you plan with the goal of getting the woman alone.
2. Know exactly how you are going to get her home
You should know exactly what you are going to do, when you will do it, and how you will make it happen. Knowing how to date successfully is simply about getting the woman on her own, getting her back to your place, and creating a situation where there is a good chance that sex will happen. You’re not 100% guaranteed to have sex with a women if you get her back to your place, but at least you’ve got a chance.
3. Have the right mindset
I learned how to date successfully by setting a goal for sex, planning for it, and believing that it was a real possibility with each date. By simply believing that sex was possible, I began to seriously plan for it. As such, my success rate increased. When you master successful dating, you will begin to expect success. You will even plan ahead for things such as making your bed before you go out and always having condoms.
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