Create an abundance of sexy ladies in your daily life…
How can I meet more cute girls?
When I think about a lot of the guys who have busy schedules they struggle with, is that they become weekend warriors.
Basically the only place they know for meeting girls is the night club.
The pick-up mask
Guys usually go out between 10 and 2 o’clock on Friday or Saturday nights, meet a few women, collect a few phone numbers, hook up with some of the women or maybe even take someone home… but then the rest of the week they have no focus on meeting women. This creates a little bit of an imbalance in their lives. And it also puts undue pressure on them when they’re specifically out looking for girls.
It’s almost as if they’re creating a switch that they flick on every time they go out on a weekend… they put on their pick-up mask and do a couple of things which are really unattractive and of low value. They might get some positive responses by going out on a weekend, but the caliber of girls that respond to guys who have this pick-up mask may not be very high, and these girls won’t inspire them moving forward, as the guys start to develop more experiences.
Overcoming the mask
What I really encourage guys to do, rather than putting on their temporary pick-up masks, is to think about developing skills that help them become a more attractive person in general. Not only will there always be a situation where you can meet women, but you won’t even have to use a mask – your natural self will get you all the women you want.
Meeting cute girls doesn’t necessarily take a lot of focus.
There should be plenty of opportunities throughout your day-to-day life where you get the opportunity to meet them. You should develop these skills so that when you spot the opportunity, you are ready to take action right away.
A simple exercise to meet more women:
I would actually encourage and support guys to do a 5 or 10 minute session on their way to the café for lunch, or on their way to grab a cup of coffee, as just that perfect opportunity where when they see a really cute girl, they just come up and say, “Hi”.
The opening lines can be really simple. You could say something like: ”I was just on my way to get coffee when I saw you passing by, and I thought you’re absolutely gorgeous!… I want to get together and find out more about you”.
There are plenty of other opportunities for guys who take public transport on their way to or from work. Just recognizing those opportunities in their day-to-day life is an important step.
Building a lifestyle to maximize opportunities
The second thing I would suggest is no less important: try to build a lifestyle that will provide you with opportunities where you can bump into some girls. If you recognize that physical fitness is something that is an important part of their lives, then get into a situation where you are going to a public gym rather than working out alone at home.
Or if you want to learn to dance, go to a local dancing class full of girls.
The great advantage of doing this is that the women there are already going to share the same passion as you, and also have the same values that you have in your current life. I think those are some key principles for people that are leading busy lives, and maybe struggling to meet a lot of women. Just be a little crafty and have some forethought on how you meet women in your daily routine. That will help greatly increase the number of women you meet and also make sure that you’re not wasting time with women that you’re not interested in.
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