Is this the right advice for me?
What online love advice have you seen that really makes sense? How can a guy tell if the online love advice he’s looking at is top notch or not?
Anything that essentially confirms that you’re not good enough to be high quality should be completely disregarded. The advice you need should bolster you and help you find ways to be with the kind of woman you are attracted to and how to be the kind of guy she is looking for. Advice should teach you how to be the very best man you can be so that you can attract the very best woman to you. Disregard anything that cuts you down.
Some guys will advise you to focus on cutting down her value to a level that is equal or lower than your self-perceived value. To add to that you actually need to lie to her about who you are what your resources are and the experiences that you’ve had with women so that she’ll naturally think that you’re a great guy and someone who she needs to latch onto. Think about it. Do you really want to date a woman who is anything less than who you think you deserve in your life?
Now the problem with this type of coaching is that your success is based on her failure and you diminish the both of you. If this mindset is at the core of their pickup model, those giving the advice tend to lead lives in which they struggling with meeting women and keeping women in their lives. Those so-called advisors are tearing you down and giving bad advice to build themselves up.
If you have the mindset that you actually need to trick them you will then need a whole bunch of different crutches and tools at your disposal in order to be able to have continued success. You should look for is advice that says, “Yes, you are good enough. There may be some things that you can do to sharpen your personality and bring out your top quality traits. But the very fact that you’re alive means that you’ve come from winning stock!”
In order for your parents to have you they had to know how to meet the opposite sex so you know that you come from good stock. Look, man, they had you! Right!? Recognise the positive qualities that you have to offer to a female. Start by the fact that you’ve got a penis and you can pleasure her physically and then move from there.
When you are looking for dating advise, look for advise that will build you up so that when you are meeting women you will you are feeling worthy of having high quality, attractive girls on your arm. If you meet a coach who advises you to cut a quality woman down to size you ought to run, not walk away from that coach. He probably has issues of his own that he should work on before he calls himself a coach.
