Take advantage of this little-used but incredibly powerful way to attract women…
Just go up and talk to her
Many people seem to think that the day game or flirting in public is some big challenge.
I think it’s actually one of the better avenues by which to meet women, because you can just meet them throughout your day, instead of having to worry about going to a nightclub.
Flirting right out in public doesn’t require too much from you.
Many people focus on the idea that you have to be overly direct or that you have to say this perfect opener.
In the day time, it can be really powerful to just get used to talking to people and with being casual with women. The fact that you’ve gone up to her, said, Hi, and started a conversation can be enough.
Combined with either bouncing her or insta-dating her and asking her go out and have coffee with you or simply going for her number.
You don’t have to do too much in the daytime, except be down to earth, normal, and just talk to her.
It’s not like a lot of guys are going up to her in the daytime. That’s a real misconception. If you want to get better at flirting in public, just become more social.
Many people don’t exercise their social muscle nearly enough. I will give you some great advice and something that I have done personally. When I used to go to school in the morning, I knew that I wouldn’t necessarily have the chance to hit on women, but what I did was I built that social muscle up, so that after school I was ready to really go and meet women should the opportunity arise.
All I would do is simply say, Hi or smile or even introduce myself and have a small conversation with people at the bus stop or the train stop or even on the train.
Just get into the habit of having these real small conversations to get you exercised and get those muscles moving, so that when opportunities do arise throughout the day to talk to women you won’t feel so scared to do it. A lot of focus has been put on the idea of going direct. While being direct can be powerful, a lot of guys seem to believe that they always have to go direct or that they can’t go direct after they’ve gone more situational. I think during the day situational can be really powerful. It’s acceptable to go situational and then afterwards saying something more direct.
That can actually be a really powerful way to do things.
For example, I remember being at a shopping center having lunch with a friend and seeing this beautiful girl reading this book. I took a sense of curiosity and thought to myself, “I wonder what it is about that book that might be appealing to her?” I excused myself from my friend and went up to her and asked her about what she was reading and why she was so engaged in it.
That’s all it really took and we just started flirting right there in public.
One thing I will give guys to start doing, even before they start talking to women or worrying about approaching women is to simply get observational. Start noticing things throughout your day and throughout your interactions with women. Notice things offers great opportunities to take note of what she may intentionally put an effort into or what can be a great way to start a conversation.
If you see opportunities to go situational, because of what’s going on around you then that can be a great way to start a conversation.
Today I had a situation where I started a conversation with a girl, because there were police around. I simply asked what had happened because I had just gotten there and I wasn’t sure so I just asked, “What’s with the police being around?” That started a conversation in a real comfortable way. I don’t want guys to get it wrong. You still need to be sure that your intent is clear. Make sure you’re still flirting, and if you have to, be perfectly clear. There’s nothing wrong with going direct, after you’ve gone situational.
Go from “What’s up?” to hook-up in one conversation
It starts casual – but it won’t stay that way for long. Just 3 innocent questions she’ll be eager to answer – completely unaware they’ll lead to a hot, steamy hook-up. Test it for yourself after watching this free video: 3 questions to open her box
WARNING! This won’t be available for long – at least not in this explosively powerful form. It’s been deemed as an unfair competitive advantage by regulatory agencies and I’m going to have to take it down or water down in the near future…
