Flirting with girls in high school doesn’t have to be a pain.
Unless your game still stuck in kindergarten?
If you constantly put down your girlfriend or girls you meet, even in a “light hearted way” it probably is. In order to have a mature and fulfilling relationship, you need to move past the high school tactics and stop beating around the bush.
Don't push her down on the playground to flirt, like you did in elementary school
Flirting in high school starts with having fun.
So you’re in school, you see a chick you like, but you wonder, “What do I do?” You’re probably wondering other things like, “is flirting in class with her ok?” What if she doesn’t like me? What if she shuts me down, am I going to be made to look like a fool? Or even worst a sleaze?”
Try flirting after-hours.
You see lot of school-age people are just learning how to flirt. Don’t do it in class… or at least don’t do it too much. There is so much time after school that you can use. Use your class time to set the foundation to meet up with her after school to “study” or “compare notes.”
Or be direct.
It may seem a bit ingenuine to strike up a conversation about the way that Mr. or Mrs. “such and such” wears their hair, while in the middle of English or History class. A lot of the time, the girl your talking to is a saying to herself “it’s obvious (you) are attracted to me, why don’t you just say so?”
With that in mind, telling women what is on your mind is something I highly encourage men to do… because this is a very direct way to flirt.
Women appreciate directness a lot more. If a girl gives you a feeling (happy, nervous, horny, envious, whatever) and you feel like you want to hang out with the girl outside of school, then do it. If something fun is happening, then get into the habit of communicating that (whatever the feeling is) with women is going to put you MILES AHEAD of the rest of the guys out there.
Express yourself.
The more comfortable you are with expressing your current opinion/feelings/thoughts, the more likely it is she will feel good around you and reciprocate that comfort. If you have anything on your mind that you think might not be appropriate, then it is usually perfect. Too many opportunities have been missed, because a guy didn’t speak his mind.
You want to know what to say, right?
Well… you already know. Or at least you will when the situation comes up. The only reason you think you don’t is because you are nervous. Here are some suggestions to get you started. Firstly, don’t interrupt the class to talk to her. It’s a good idea to catch her eye and make eye contact.
Blurting what you have to say out in the middle of class would be awkward for the both of you. She may not even know who you are talking to, you might have to whisper and then mishearing is a problem. So make sure to catch her attention some time, either under your breath or even better in the hallway go say hello.
Introduce yourself.
Strike up a conversation, when the time is right and introduce yourself.
If guys say something like, “Isn’t that English teacher so boring?” and straight from that you can admit that “you said that because you just wanted to come and talk to her.” You are just playing off of the fact that guys find it hard to say what is on their mind. This will show her that you’re a bit more socially savvy, and “know the score” – something girls absolutely love.
Avoid the little boy games.
Do you have questions about flirting? Ask in the comments below and I’ll answer each one personally.
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