With Cancer women “No” really does mean try harder… and trust me… it’s worth it!
How would a person flirt with a Cancer woman in public, when her guard may be up a little high?
A Cancer woman is known to have a sensitive and emotional interior, encased in an elusive and hard to crack exterior.
The key with Cancer women is that you want to be a little persistent; developing the skill of persistency is a valuable asset for guys to have anyway, but it’s going to be critical with Cancer women, because they do have a little bit of a harder shell.
You want to develop that persistence, but without being needy; that’s really the key concept there.
Some guys, when they become persistent, they actually start to come off as a little needy.
The challenge here is being able to express your interest in a girl, and let her know that you’re not going to give up too easily; but not bug her all the time so that this needy vibe comes off.
A scenario may be as follows: a guy approaches a Cancer woman at a bar, and she’s not super-responsive to his initial approach. If he can recognize that he’s a great guy with a lot of value to add to a woman, both intellectually and physically, and come off really stable in the conversation; he will eventually reach the point where she’s going to recognize that, and start to open up to him.
I think another great thing that can be really valuable with Cancer women is to take the girl off her guard.
So for example, you could say, “I can see you’ve got a bit of a hard shell, and you’re strong and independent; but I bet there’s a really soft, sweet side to you that when you get to know someone, you feel comfortable letting out, and it’s a really beautiful part of yourself.” Now the great thing about that approach is that it’s a bit of a truism that’s essentially going to be true for every single person you meet. It’s pretty much foolproof.
We all have times where we feel like we need to put a front up; put a bit of a wall up between ourselves and the rest of the world, but each and every one of us has that soft and sensitive side. It’s certainly true for all Cancer women that I’ve dealt with, and being a Cancer myself, I can certainly relate to the traits.
The secret is that sometimes, people put up walls just to see who cares enough to knock them down.
The best strategy is to just be persistent, and trust that you have good intentions, and that you have the ability to offer value.
Where possible, try and deal with emotions, try and get to a point where when you’re having a flirty conversation with women and you’re not talking about facts; like what you did today, what you’ve got planned for next week, etc. But actually start to bring some emotion into the conversation. What did it feel like when you did what you did today, or how do you feel about what you’re going to be doing next week.
I think that if you follow through with these suggestions, you will really be seeing greater success with women.
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