Does the friend zone suck?
You can get out and flirt with your friend… so that she WANTS you.
Do you have a friend who is HOT and you want to take it to the next level with her?
Every guy has a girl FRIEND that he wants to make more than a friend. But getting out of the friend zone is tough. She already thinks of you in one way, so you need to change that thought. But don’t change it all at one time. Do not act different, don’t treat her better than before, and don’t put her on a pedestal.
The first step to flirting with a friend is to start dropping hints.
Start dropping some hints, when you are hanging out. Give her some compliments, invite her to something that you normally wouldn’t, and include her in other things you do. Make her a part of your social world… as you start dropping suggestive hints. You want her to think you might interested in her as more than a friend. But you can’t just go straight for a kiss! You don’t want to just try to jump from friend to casual sex or a relationship. You have to take things like that a little slower than with some girl you just met.
Keep dropping hints…
Let her know that you are interested in some way. Whether it is text messages, more compliments, teasing her playfully, or start touching her more. These will let her know that you are interested, but you don’t have to say anything. In fact, she will be wondering… which will start to create some sexual tension, if you are still being attractive and not acting like she is on a pedestal.
Some subtle compliments are…
Notice things about her, like you could say, “Oh you look really nice in blue today,” or, “I like the way you did your nails today.” Or you could substitute her hair or something about the way she dressed. “You seem a lot happier these days”’ or something about the way she is works really well too. These are the best compliments for a woman who has only been a friend. Notice you aren’t overbearing or way out there, you are subtlyletting her know you’re interested in moving things beyond a friendship level.
Common mistake guys make when flirting with a friend…
Do not say… “Oh God, I just realized how hot you are or,” or “I really want to be inside you.” You have to transition from friend to lover… so you want to give her time to picture you in a sexual way in your mind first. Use the subtle hints to flirt with her and build up sexual tension over time. Let her stay comfortable and get used to the idea of you noticing her more, taking an interest in her and work on things from there.
The other option is to start implementing new techniques into your arsenal…
Tired of meeting women and getting shot down? Stop playing guessing games with what to say. If you’re not hooking up with the type of women you’re most attracted to…you’re doing something wrong. You don’t need to be the wealthiest, best looking guy in the world to make women want you. All you need to know is what questions turn women on and make them see you as a lover.