How to get a girl to be friends with benefits is much easier than you think. In fact, a lot of women in the world actually want a fuck buddy as well. Here are the secrets to getting some casual satisfaction.
Have you ever had a fuck buddy or wanted one? Please write your experiences down in the comments box below along with any questions you have got about this article or the advice in it. I am keen to hear what tips you might personally want to follow and try and how you go with them.
The revelation that girls want fuck buddies might be different to what society has taught you about men and women: that only men want casual relationships and women want serious relationships, but it’s simply not true. A lot of women out there are simply looking for someone to have sex with, with nothing else involved. No emotions, no love, no commitment, no seriousness, no worries. This article shows you what you need to do to get a girl in bed with no attachments!
The big no-nos when asking for a fuck buddy
The best way to learn how to get a friend with benefits is to look at the mistakes that men usually make when they want friends with benefits. Take a look.
- The guy actually wants more than casual sex. A guy starts off in the casual side of things and then he gets his emotions attached and then he gets less attractive to her, because she just wants to have fun. Don’t be this guy – if you want a casual relationship, then keep it casual!
- If it’s not you, it’s her. He wants something casual and she wants more and then it breaks down and gets messy.
- You do not take advantage of the situation enough. Say you meet a girl and you just want to have friends with benefits and maybe she wants to become very sexually experimental. So, she even wants to consider doing things, ticking off an imaginary sexual fantasy checklist. A lot of guys do not realize this opportunity and how much fun it can be. So, they often don’t maximize it. Then later, you leave in regret knowing that you were dating an extremely sexually open woman.
I remember when I picked up this German girl and she was open to absolutely everything. I did not take full advantage of that situation. When it ended, I was really upset with myself.
So without further ado, here are the three of the secrets on how to get a friend with benefits.
Start to make your relationships with women
Do this especially the sexual ones, extremely casual. No deep conversations, no over interest in their lives for who they are as a person, not getting emotionally attached, but just learn the difference between love and sex. Enjoy the freedom of having a purely sexual relationship with a woman who you do not really talk about things on a deep level with. You just enjoy experimenting and having fun with someone.
Another first time I got a fuck buddy, it was actually the best relationship I ever had, because it was just totally honest. There was no BS, there were no long deep conversations, there was nobody getting upset. It was what it was and it was amazing, but before that, I actually had a resistance to having such a free, casual relationship. It was like intuitively; I wanted to keep trying to take things sexual and wanted to treat her like my girlfriend.
You have to have a lot of self-discipline just to keep her relaxed.
Change your beliefs about women
It is very hard to have a fuck buddy relationship if you have old-fashioned views about women. You’re not going to get a girl in bed with that attitude. You need to get with the modern day. Women these days are very free and open. In fact, around the world every year they now hold what they call a slut walk where women want to be proud of being sexually open and free. Instead of being judged as sluts being a negative thing, they want to be proud of it.
I highly encourage you to do exactly the same in your beliefs about women. Update them, bring them up to the modern day and realize women like sex just as much as men, if not more. Let them enjoy the freedom of casual relationships as well. It is often men these days get emotionally attached and get unattractive and boring. It is often women want to experience and have a wild time. Make sure to update your beliefs – just like updating your operating system in your computer.
You have to be a bit more of a go-getter and a sexual guy
Women who are sexually open usually can attract men in a way. It is kind of like bees to honey. You may have only a very small window of opportunity to actually do something. I highly recommend that you want to pull the trigger as fast as you can, because you probably will not get a long window with women like this.
I know the first time a woman asked me to be her fuck buddy; I did not know what to do. The offer was not there a week later. You really do have to move and strike when the opportunity is there. If you screw around and mock around, then it will not be there for much long. You have got to take a chance and you have got to be the one to make the move.
Stop telling yourself ‘I want a friend with benefits’ and asking yourself how you can find the girl, and start taking action!
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