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Time and again, guys come up to me with stories about how great their ex was, and how they want to get back together. Here’s what you can do to get a girl to like you again:
(This article is also useful if you’re still in a relationship, but you feel like you’re drifting apart.)
Step 1: Try to remember what made your relationship great.
One of the problems I see guys having with relationships is that at first, when they’ve just met this wonderful girl, they give her lots of attention, they’re creative about the dates they go on, and they spend a lot of time with her. All of these factors are great in contributing to a strong relationship.
The problem comes up when guys stop paying as much attention to their girlfriends. This usually happens because we started taking her for granted. After a while, we probably stopped putting as much attention and effort into making each date exciting, opting instead for the easier dinner-movie date, or we started getting distracted while around her. Getting distracted by text messages is particularly bad.
So if you want to know how to get a girl to like you again, you need to show her that you’ve got that adventurous spirit you had at the beginning of your relationship, and that you still really appreciate her.
– Do you feel as though this advice is helping you out? Please try out some of these tips, and then report your progress in the comment section below! We’d love to hear from you. –
Step 2: Abandon any masks.
Some guys choose to put up a mask – a sort of acting façade, whenever they’re around their girlfriend. The problem with this is that all you’re really doing is creating a barrier, and making bonding very difficult. If you want a girl to like you, and not someone you’re pretending to be, then you need to show her the real you.
Putting on a mask is really never a good idea, even when just meeting women. Girls are pretty good at seeing past our acting, so all it does is it makes you seem desperate and needy for validation and compliments, whereas women almost always prefer men who are independent, and don’t need anyone to tell them how good they are.
Step 3: Learn to value yourself more.
Now I’m not saying abandoning your mask and showing the real you is always easy, especially since the reason most guys put on a mask is because they’re basically unhappy with who they really are. Most of the time, this is just a perception problem, and can be solved by improving your self-confidence.
Other times, you really need to work on yourself to make yourself a better and more attractive person.
Guys who value themselves also learn to value their time, and begin to live a fuller life. Spending an entire evening sitting on a couch is not something you do when you really care about your time. Instead, consider going out to the gym, going for a jog, reading a book, or learning a new language.
And self-valuation leads to something else that’s quite fascinating – you start getting over rejection!
When you know how much you’re worth, you no longer care about whether she rejects you or not, because you realize that it’s actually her loss. This change in your mindset can be really shocking at first, because until now you’ve probably always thought that you were the one to lose out if you were rejected.
All of these tips, if properly applied and integrated into your life, will make getting a girl to like you again, or getting new girls to like you – a piece of cake. More than that, it’s going to make your own life that much more enjoyable.
Step 4: Get her back in 7 days or less…
Stop and pay close attention because chances are that your past mistakes have caused a pathway of destruction that goes as far back as your first relationship. Learn exactly where you’ve gone wrong, and how to guarantee you’ll never make the same relationship destroying mistakes again in this free, no-holds-barred video.
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