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You can’t get your girlfriend back by focusing on her… focus on yourself instead.
Most guys stomp their relationship into the ground, because they try desperately to “win her back.”
This never works. In fact, this just helps her realize how right she is by leaving you. But you can get her back, although you are going to need to do something that seems counterintuitive.
To get your girlfriend back, focus on yourself.
Focusing on yourself is actually the only way you are going to get your girlfriend back. It might not work either… but that isn’t a bad thing. She just wasn’t right for you. But if you focus on changing your life and being an attractive, happy man… it won’t matter. You can have any woman you want. Here are 4 things you can do today to start working on yourself and maybe learn how to get a girlfriend back.
1. Take space.
After you break up, then take space for you. Unfriend your girlfriend on Facebook, get rid of anything in your house that reminds you of her, and steer clear of places that she hangs out. To focus on yourself, you need to let your attachment to her and your relationship go first. This will be a challenge. You will want to check up on her and probably even want to be sad about your relationship. Try to avoid this… and move on. The sooner you can feel full and whole in yourself, then the sooner you can potentially get her back… if you want her back.
2. Do something you have always said you wanted to do.
You’ve always wanted to learn karate, right? So go take a class. Or maybe you’ve been talking about starting your own business for years… enroll in a business class. It doesn’t matter so much, what you choose to do… just take a step forward on something that you have always wanted to know. It is time to start building your dream lifestyle that you always talk about.
3. Date other women.
Go meet and date other women. Go see that there are plenty of other women out there. She isn’t “The One,” she is one of many women who are compatible with you. Go talk to some women, take the ones you like on dates, and even sleep with them. This is an easy way to break the hold of your old relationship and if there is something real with your ex-girlfriend, this will help you see it… or you will easily move past her.
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