The slow and steady build-up that never fails to attract women…
Learning how to get a girlfriend can be difficult at times.
There are some things a guy can do to really bring himself out of his comfort zone and make meeting that potential girlfriend easier. I think I said this previously, but progress comes in movement, not meditation. The less time you think about it and prepare for it and the more time you actually get out there and do it, the better off you are going to be, and the more real life experiences you’re going to have. If it’s new to you, I would, first of all, make little goals for yourself. Make little small steps.
Approaching a girl out of nowhere and doing a cold approach can be really difficult and really uncomfortable.
Maybe, first of all, what we want to do, even just on the street, and go up to an attractive girl and ask for the time, or ask for directions. Or go to a bar and ask a girl for perhaps an opinion on something or give her a compliment. Just setting little small goals for yourself to really start to get comfortable with the idea of going up to a complete stranger and actually chatting to them, just out of nowhere. It’s about little baby steps.
Maybe you want to start creating more little goals for yourself.
Your goal might be to go out for an hour and ask five attractive girls for the time, something very simple like that. After that, maybe the next week it might be ask for the time and then make a minute of small talk with her or ask her how her day’s going, and continually building and building until you get to the point where you can actually just go up to a girl and be comfortable with having a conversation with her out of the blue, just a total cold approach where she’s not expecting anything.
You walk up to her and you start talking to her.
She may feel a little bit uncomfortable initially, but if you are comfortable with it, and if you’re displaying signs of confidence, she will very quickly become comfortable and confident. This is a very common thing that happens in Europe and in other parts of the world, but it doesn’t seem to happen a lot in the Western world. We’re very scared to show emotion. We’re very closed off to talking to strangers, and we’re very much in our own world during the day. It’s almost like an invisible wall we put up to keep others out of our space.
Something like this is very difficult and very hard, but we just need to really take action.
The more you can do this, the more opportunities you start to create for yourself, and the more women start to come into your life. The more women that start to come into your life, the more opportunities you have of finding that particular girl that really takes you and you can see some long-term potential with.
Now that I’ve given you a step-by-step way to build unshakable confidence that will attract women, I’m to let you in a little shortcut I teach my clients to give them an immediate boost in confidence (and sexual activity): Open her box
Even if you don’t have confidence in yourself right now, you can have 100% confidence in the effectiveness of these 3 innocent questions and their ability to get you laid.