Imagine you’re walking down the street or into a club, and all eyes are on you. As you move, you can sense that women are instantly drawn and attracted to you. While this may seem a little far-fetched in your current reality, I know for a fact that it’s possible. Why? Because I’ve learned how to be noticed myself. I’ve created an aura around me that defies logic.
Because I am not tall. I am not classically good looking. I don’t even dress particularly well.
But, for some reason, women notice me. They feel so drawn to me, they feel they have to approach me because for some reason they can’t understand, they can sense that there’s something special about me.
Now, it helps that I’ve studied with some of the biggest body language specialist around the world, and of course I’ve been actively working on becoming a more attractive person – ironing out many of my limiting beliefs in the process. I was definitely not an overnight success. But, with a little bit of effort and some polish, you too can achieve what I have achieved.
Your chances to pick a girl up shoot through the roof if she’s already noticed you before you approach her. When you learn how to get girls to notice you before you’ve even introduced yourself, you can make eye contact during your approach, and as you get closer and closer to her, she can already feel sexual tension building up inside her body. It gives you a great head start before you’ve even opened your mouth.
The last thing I will mention is that if you’ve got anxiety problems, you want to deal with them now, rather than later. Here’s a good starting point.
So, without further ado, here’s my advice for you…
Tip 1: Change your speed.
No, I’m serious.
The first thing you want to do is to either walk a little bit slower, or a little bit quicker than everyone else. Depending on what environment you’re in, either one of these can be effective for various reasons. If you are going for a more seductive sexual vibe, then you want to slow your walk down.
For example, if I’m in a nightclub, I walk almost in slow motion. Have you seen those Hollywood movies where on prom night, the geeky artsy girl with glasses who has been made over by the hot cheerleader friend walks into the prom and everything slows down? That’s the reality I try to recreate every time I walk into a club.
Tip 2: Stop bobbing your head around.
While you’re walking, what are you doing with your head? If your head is flipping from side-to-side, looking at people around you, you’re just going to look like you’re on the prowl.
What I do is keep my head straight ahead. If I do turn to the side, I make really slow movements and hold my eye contact as I go, with no sudden jerky movements.
Tip 3: Make a fashion statement.
It’s important to make sure that whatever image or persona you try to create with your fashion, it needs to stand out from the crowd.
It helps, sometimes, to go a little bit further and cross the line to realize just how far you can push the envelope. When you do change your appearance, there will be certain people that will challenge you on it.
Do not worry about this. This is just them expressing their own jealousy. If you have the confidence to pull off a slightly over-the-top fashion statement, as long as it is still in keeping with what is in at the current time, girls will be instantly attracted to you.
Tip 4: Have a unique item on you. A conversation starter.
Another great idea when it comes to fashion is to have some unique item of clothing, something that separates you from everyone else. The reason this is so powerful is because it gives girls an opportunity to come up and talk to you. They have a conversation starter that will give them an excuse to come say, “Hi.”
If a girl approaches you about a particular item of clothing, even if it is to tease you about it, you can feel confident deep down that she is actually attracted to you, but was just too shy to come up with any other way to let you know. This is a great window of opportunity and a time to escalate on a girl instantly.
Tip 5: Go viral. And I’m not talking about STD’s.
One of the most powerful aspects of Facebook at the moment is its viral capacity. When someone makes a post on your wall, it spreads and all their friends see it. You also want to create this viral effect when you’re interacting with women. I have built such a large social circle of cute, hot, female friends that it is easy for me to ring a couple of friends up and take them to a club.
When other girls see you walking into a club with other hot girls, they will immediately notice you. You will stand out and they will already be wondering what is so special about this guy.
They assume that if other hot girls are with you, you must be the real deal.
Even if you do not have female friends while you’re entering a club, you can still make friends with girls just by talking to them in the waiting line, so that it looks like you’ve walked in with a group of girls.
To take full advantage of this, you want to be extremely social early in the night. I refer to it as warming up the club. Work from one set of girls to another, until you’ve created the illusion that you know everyone in the place.
As I said earlier, standing out and getting girls to notice you is not an overnight project. It does take a little bit of time and a little bit of forethought, and you will trip up along the way; but over the space of six weeks to three months, you can make a transformation that will last a lifetime. Let me tell you, it is worth the work!
So, what are you waiting for? Open Pandora’s Box, and change your life forever!