I know that this is killing me just like it kills a lot of other guys.
I want to know how to get her into my bed…now.
How can I get her to come home with me with both of us knowing what’s going to happen?
There are five key points on how I get women into bed that you can keep in mind in order to ensure your success.
Step No. 1 – Move her, step by step
Step number one to get women into bed is to perform a smooth progression with your interaction. Realize that getting a girl from the club straight back to your bed is a fairly significant move. What you want to be able to do is add some smaller moves along the way, so that she can get comfortable with the idea of moving around.
We refer to these as compliance tests. Start with really small logistical compliance tests, such as moving her to the bar, or moving her to an isolated area. The next level is to move her outside to grab a pizza. By the time it comes to moving her back to your place, you will find the job a lot easier.
Step No. 2 – Come up with a reason
The second step is to have a reason for why you’re going back to your or her place. Maybe you want to show her a project that you’ve been working on. Maybe you want to introduce her to your pet kitty, or maybe you just want to go back for a couple of drinks or to watch a DVD; but it just makes it that much easier for her to agree on a conscious level if there’s a reason that isn’t directly concerned with sex.
Step No. 3 – Have a “let’s get out of here” line
The third tip is to have an instructional line in mind. I’m not big on using routines, but I think that for certain parts of the game, it is important to have a little bit of structure. Here are the two that I generally focus on:
If it’s late at night and the club or the bar that we’re at is about to shut, then I say, “This place is about to close. But I’m not ready for the night to end – I’m really enjoying spending time with you. Why don’t we go back to my place? We can check out a DVD and hang out.”
If it’s early in the night and I want to take her home, I would say “You know, I’m sort of over being in public tonight, but I’m really enjoying getting to know you. Let’s head back to my house. We’ll have a couple of drinks, and I’ll drop you home in a couple of hours?”
Having a line can be really beneficial to getting a girl back towards you bed. Just having something that you can fall back on and feel comfortable saying.
Step No. 4 – Make sure you live close enough
It’s important to make sure your distance is good. If you’re out at a club, but you live an hour and a half away, it’s going to be challenging to be able to take her back to your place. You want to make sure that the place where you live is accessible, clean, and has some privacy. If you’ve got good logistics, that’s going to be of real assistance.
There’s a phrase within the community that logistics trumps game. Good logistics will trump good game, and I truly believe that. When I was having the most success, my logistics were always there. I was living a thirty second walk from the club and it was effortless to get girls into bed.
Step No. 5 – What are her logistics?
The fifth and final point is getting a feel for what her logistical situation is. Find out who she’s at the club with, what her plans are for later that night, how she’s getting home, and what her plans are for the next day. If you can get that information you are going to be able to move forward in a more informed way that isn’t just guessing.
Getting her into bed on the first night requires some quick thinking and confidence, but I believe in you. Once you’ve achieved this, the next challenge is performing well!
Step No. 6 – Get her to beg to take her home tonight.
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