Do you get fed up with all your friends getting invited to really cool parties and you’re not? Do you want to get to hang out with cool people, have a good time, and mingle at cool parties? You are not alone. Hundreds of guys just like you all want to know how to get invited to parties.
House parties in particular are one of the best ways to meet girls because they are more open to being chatted to in the party environment. Also – you’ve probably got some connection to the host and, therefore, have some common ground to make the first introduction really easy.
Become the life and soul of the party…
First of all, you want to be a person that’s interesting to others. They’re inviting you to their party and want to know that you’re a guy that’s going to bring value, not a guy that’s going to be embarrassing or awkward. Try to think of ways you can make yourself more interesting and exciting to your fellow party-attendees. It could be the style of clothes you wear, your interests and hobbies, your job, or perhaps you are a keen traveler.
All these things contribute to making you a better and more interesting person that people are going to gravitate towards at a party. If you are a person that makes the party more exciting and popular to others, then you are guaranteed to get an invite.
Get to know people…
The next important tip is to get to know more people, especially the well-connected people. The more people you get to know, the bigger your network of friends is going to become. This way, you are going to increase the number of party opportunities available to you and, therefore, the number of invites that you get.
One little tip that I recommend when approaching people is to be sincerely interested in them. Ask them questions and show that you are intrigued. People love talking about themselves, and they are bound to warm a lot more to you if you are showing that you are interested in knowing more about them. Do your best to get out there and chat people up. This could be through joining some meet-up groups and by making an effort to go to more events. It is crucial that you push yourself out of your comfort zone if you want to get invited to more parties and meet more girls.
Get connected online…
These days, Facebook is the way most people keep connected. and it’s a valuable tool to help you get invited to parties. This is because people generally invite all their Facebook friends to an event that they’re having. Plus, you can get updates on what that person’s doing, you can chat to them, and you can keep up with their interests and hobbies.
Once you meet someone interesting and share a good conversation with them, get their Facebook details and add them straightaway. It is less invasive than asking for a phone number and gives you much more insight into what kind of person they are.
If you have any queries or questions on how to get invited to parties, or would like more information, then please let me know in the comments section below. I look forward to reading all your comments and try to respond to them as much as possible.